"Can depression cause feelings for someone you care about to go away?? He is definetly not himself right now and i dont want to give up! Can medication Help him feel better and to help us be a better couple again?? "
Yes and Yes.
It isn't that his feelings have gone away, it's more like they are smothered under the mood. Medication can help.
But, If there are True issues with the relationship that he needs to deal with they will still exist after the depression passes.
Medication and therapy can help but he has to willing.You cant do it for .He has to want to get better.Just let him know you love him and wnat the best for him.Its hard to watch someone you love go through this but it is something he has to do.keep posting and let us know how it goes.
Love Venora