Some scars are just there to stay- and there isn't much you can do about them. Other scars seem to take forever to fade, but eventually you don't even notice them anymore. If you want to see if there is anything you can do about the scar, you will need to go into a doctor for an exam of the area and they can give you options that might be available to you. Things like vitamin E oil have been known to help fade scars as well. Most of the time, these scars only bother us and no one else even notices them (even in your case, if you are with someone else, sexually,- they likely won't be critical of any scars on your body). Scars make us unique- they don't ruin our bodies, even though it can feel like it some of the time!