Oh gosh, that's hard to read. How old are they? So, your ex is mad that you have started a relationship with a new woman? If it were me, and this is your heartbreak, I'd make some changes. I'd move back to where they live. You hopefully can afford to live on your own now and can get an apartment in the same city as they are. Then, you have a better shot at their coming around. I'd not live so far from them. And then on a more natural level you can reconnect. Maybe not today, but as they get older and are in a better position. You also can then work with the court system if they are minors to get visitation in which your wife can't take away your rights. When was the last time you saw them?