Gosh, really sorry to hear this. Really. This is a hard situation. He was once someone he isn't now. Waiting for him is a risk. He may never be that sweetheart that treated you well again. And we learn a lot about someone during the bad times. He's the kind of guy that flirts and carries on in bad times. Not someone I'd trust with my heart again. If it were me, I'd put distance on this. Go on with your life. Don't date, don't think about dating. Just work on things you like or need to for yourself. Like working out, your career, etc. And then down the road in a year, you can revisit if you still would have any interest in rekindling things with him. You'll probably need a counselor to work through all that has happened if you ever do reconcile. but for now, no. I wouldn't wait. Go on with your life. sorry sweetie, I know this is very painful. hugs