Should i get back with her?

[deism]

I recently found my girlfriends text to this another man where he calls him babe, i love you, and stuffs like that. she even used to ditch me to talk to that guy. they used to call each other every day but she claims she used to only study with her. After i found out about them she says she really loved me and that text was just a joke. She even stopped talking with that guy. I am so confused what should i do? She says sorry and wants us to get back together.
she used to say she felt sleepy and her laptop is overheating and leave me to go call that guy.

[specialmom]

Well, I think I'd not trust her again.  I'm sorry.  While this does sound like it was in the past and she put the brakes on it once you found out BUT, it happened.  You can't erase that.  Some people that cheat do regret it when it ends their stable relationship.  She either really needs attention and is willing to step out of the relationship to get it or she liked this guy even when she didn't want to, but either way, it happened.  It's up to you if you want to rebuild trust with her but it will take time.  And since she's never fully owned up to it, she's still not being honest.  

So, if you are a young man, I'd go ahead and find someone you don't have this negative history with to have a long term relationship with.  I'm really sorry!

[deism]

ty :(