When I was younger and started having sex, after one particular sexual encounter (with my girlfriend) I came out with a case of Paraphimosis. And ever since then, sex, or at least the consistent erection part has been *hard for me. That instance of physical trauma has created an almost protective barrier for my penis that has become completely involuntary and for which I have no control over. With each partner is different. Sometimes the first time I'm successful, and others, it takes a lot longer.
However, that was quite awhile ago, and I'm 29 now and with my new current girlfriend the problem still exists. And not only that, my erections in general are weaker (substantially) and even less reliable. I am a vegan, but I don't think my diet is the *constricting variable within the problem. I know it's mostly psychological, but this latter part, the waning in my overall ability, at what I consider a still pretty young age, is even more disconcerting. And I know the 'worry' is just kindling to the *waning fire.
Anyways, wondering if anyone has had any success with hypnosis or other possible psychological remedies. I would like to stay away from pills just based on simple principles (but if need be, I'm desperate enough to board that train). Because this quagmire horrible on my psyche. Don't get me wrong, I love to give, and I love the process that is the sexual process, but at this point I'm losing starting to lose a lot of my male self-worth.
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