Masturbation is perfectly healthy and normal. So, I want to lead with that. However, the issue can develop that the direct stimulation that you achieve from masturbation is a bit different than actual sex. Your penis is trained for the direct stimulation you give it. What a doctor will tell you is to back off on masturbation for a few weeks. Hard to do. But you may find that you are more easily stimulated again. Porn also can be a bit of an issue in that in itself, porn is porn and men are visual and it gets the 'job' done. But life isn't porn. I'd also not use porn for the same period you don't masturbate. Try that. Let me know how it goes.