I'm Daren and it seems like I am having the same thing if u figure it out.. lmk pls
i am rally interested in your comment about the use of seredyn for psychological ED and want to know how effective it is. is it also possible to use it alongside Viagra or alcohol.
Hi James
So at 28 your in trouble, me I had the same plus a bit more at 63, the bit more was ED, the doc here in Greece gave Viagra to, but it made fill like a machine and high blood pressure, so did some reserch and DHEA kept coming up as a help, its a hormon replacment that you can buy over the counter, except for me its a no no out here in Greece, so mine comes from the states, I'm now on 75mg a day, now this can have some side effects, but for its been ok, it should boast your sex life up, but if you try it start at 25mg a day at first and see how it goes but build it up slowly.
I'm adding a link which you may find intresting, its best you read all the pages, Good luck.
http://www.webmd.com/vitamins-supplements/ingredientmono-331-DHEA.aspx?activeIngredientId=331&activeIngredientName=DHEA
I used to be exactly in the same position a few years ago, where my penis would get flaccid right before penetration, till I found a simple but powerful way to "reprogram" yourself, so that you won’t feel the anxiety anymore. Check this explanation on http://laviewpoint.com. I hope it will help others the same way it helped me.
I have the same problem and i nicked a few tadalafil 10 mg tablets from my dads cupboard... do u think i should not use them? i plan to this weekend... same story as Jamesc2009!
and can you tell me more about SEREDYN and where to get them then?
i do plan to see the doc in a couple weeks....
"I’m anxious every time I’m intimate with her - I fear I will fail to perform, and that’s exactly what happens. I have lost my ability to be lost in the moment with her, to 'let go', to enjoy sex without feeling this anxiety."
I'm not a doctor but this sounds like sexual performance anxiety to me.
I know very well how you feel, James. I used to have the same problem: I was always able to obtain a strong erection but I would sometimes get a bit anxious and lose it just before penetration. This is a very common problem and there's even a medical name for it: coital anxiety.
Anxiety and sex don't go well together but there's a good reason for this. When you're facing a dangerous situation, real or imaginary, stress hormones constrict peripheral circulation so that blood can reach your vital organs (heart, lungs). An erection is the last thing you need when you're in danger. This is the infamous 'fight-or-flight response'.
The good news is: sexual performance anxiety is easily treatable and if I can do it, so can you. In my case, oral drugs were very effective but you should always take them under the supervision of a doctor (urologist).
I have a couple of suggestions:
- Condoms are a problem for everyone. I suggest you ask your girlfriend to take care of that and put the condom for you. Problem solved!
- A penis ring can help you maintain an erection but it's uncomfortable and your girlfriend will see it.
- Most anxiolytics can cause or worsen ED but some have no sexual side effects. I'm also a terribly anxious person, so I always take SEREDYN one hour before sex and it works. SEREDYN is a natural supplement for the treatment of anxiety that contains valerian, L-theanine and passion flower.
- Oral drugs are excellent. You have already tried Viagra but this is not the only option. There are other PDE-5 inhibitors in the market: Levitra and Cialis. Consult a doctor before you decide to take any of these drugs.
- I also suggest you try VIGAMED (oral phentolamine 40 mg). VIGAMED is not a PDE-5 inhibitor, it is a new ED drug that inhibits the negative effects of stress hormones via the sympathetic system. It is safer than Viagra and very effective. It's not available in the US but you can order it online: vasomaxclinic.com
- Finally, if you decide to take these drugs, NEVER tell your girlfriend about it. I don't care how much you love her or trust her, women want to feel desired and the mere mention of the name 'Viagra' is a huge turn-off for them.
I hope this helps. Good luck!
i've had that exact same problem, and i'm really worried... i'm 19 years old, but sex with my ex girlfriend was always great! this new person i've met, that happened the first time we were about to do it, and now i'm really afraid, i simply feel my erections are weak and don't want to try...
is it possible you had an injury to your penis. were you jelqing or doing having some vigorous sex. I ask because i'm 27 never had problems before my gf is hot, and i have a similiar problem, i traced it back to my jelqing injury, after that it wasn't the same. Seen any other changes in your penis?