Dear psychocandy99,
The treatment of a chalazion is warm compresses a four times a day. The goal is try to get the gland to drain on its own. Sometimes, if the compress is too hot, it can cause more redness. I would recommend that you seek the care of an eyeMD if you have not, and if you have, go back to let him/her know what is happening.
Sandy T. Feldman, M.D., M.S.
ClearView Eye and Laser Medical Center
San Diego, California
Thank you for the advice, I'll use the warm compression remedy more often and then consider the results.