it turns out its an infection and has caused my entire lower eyelid even where my cheek kinda is to swell up and have a purple tint also the under eyelid skin is DARK red
No way to tell for sure but the most common thing tha would cause this is infection of an eyelid oil gland called a stye. This is usually treated with warm compresses and antibiotic eye drops prescribed by an Eye MD ophthalmologist. Try and get in to see an Eye MD or have your family doctor arrange a consult.