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Please Help me I`m loosing my mind...

Hi, Dears, Please somoene help me. Ive been TTC through IUI, Metformin, Clomid & Ovidrel....Got a BFP in January, had a MC 9 at 9 weeks, followed by D&C, used Duphaston to induce period later in the month. Took Clomid days 5-9, Trigger Shot on Day 12, 3 nice big follies (19mm+). Had 2 IUI`s on the days following this. Im currently at 10dpo.

My problem: I am experiencing nausea & fatigue and a whitish discharge. Took various pregnancy tests, all negative until today, one of them (a more expensive brand) gave me a BFP (faint line that developed after 5 minutes). According to the info in the package the test should be read between 3 and 10 minutes. I went to the pathologist immediately and the blood test can back BFN. I`m loosing my mind. I have hot flushes, but worse at this stage I am VERY anxious.

Is it possible for me to actually be pregnant? Can a urine test be + before a blood test? I`m struggling to cope. I have this pushing urgency... I`m always somewhere between crying and anger...


My PCOS is very well controlled, and I actually ovulate naturally, but the Dr suggested we maximize the IUI chances with Clomid. Any info would really really help...
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I definately feel you on that. I have PCOS and take 500mg metformin a day my doc has had me on Clomid since April. HCG, Blood work all test came out Ok, My husband has no sperm and he is 25 and I am 26. I finally rec'd my first positive ovulating and I went in on June 10 for my first IUI very anxious to know if I am. I was told I had to wait until next week if my period doesnt come to call my doctor and go in for blood work that is the most accurate, she said to not take a at home test but the wait is killing me. I know it was May 5 when you posted did the test come out as your are? :Let me know
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The good news is that it is alright to lose your mind!!!  I think that is the problem with me, I am so stressed about being prego that I can’t seem to get prego.  I stress myself out too much, too much pressure on myself I am well aware of that.  I think with you however and this is just my opinion is that at 10 DPO its too soon.  I did a lot of research last month about implantation and the mothers body is unaware she is pregnant until the little bean implants.  Also, I am no expert on shots and triggers and all the drugs but sometimes you have to let those wear off or you will get a pos HPT.  I pray it is too early for you and an angel is waiting to join your home soon. Distract yourself as best you can!
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just try and relax, don't get so worked up like that it will only work against you...the more anxious you get the harder it is to get pregnant and stay pregnant....GOOD LUCK ! take a vacation, have fun...
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