Hi sweetie. I know it is hard waiting. They do say to test at day 14 and that is for a reason. I know that by day 11, most women would get a positive test if pregnant but not all do. There IS still hope. Do you have an in office check for your HCG level on day 14?
I'm sorry about your ectopic too! That really stinks and I can feel in how you write your post how much you want this baby and for this round of IVF to work. Let's wait to see what the result is on day 14. I'll be thinking about you and hope you come back and let me know how that test goes. hugs
Hi. I don't know what your final verdict was on day 14. I hope it was positive but if not, please know you will get your baby and hopefully soon. hugs
Hi, honey. May I ask what your final verdict was?
Here's what I experienced when saw bfp for the first time of my life:
I never tested before 13dpo. I've been having lots of symptoms before. But I didn't expect the cycle would bring any positive results. I know this might sound strange. But really wasn't too optimistic after the first failure..So as for the symptoms: Nausea from around 6dpo. Tiredness starting from 4dpo!! Muscle aching, mild cramping (Never bothering!). Poking/tugging feeling in uterus at 11dpo. Small amount of pinkish/brown CM at 8-9dpo. I really doubted whether I should test or not before my official beta. Went med with waiting and tested on 13dpo. Got bfp.
Hope you'll share some perfect news with us. Hugs.
I am so sorry for your negative result! I can't give any answers regarding IVF as I am new to this nightmare as of a year ago when I lost my last fallopian tube to an ectopic pregnancy. Please please learn how to chart your cycle and be disciplined to do it every single month! I had my first ectopic 2014, lost rt tube. had 2 babies naturally after that. then lost my left tube to an ectopic in 2018. The doctors were cavalier and said "don't worry...there's always IVF"....but I had lots of surgical complications including damage to my ovaries....so my egg quality is not to good now. Once you have your first ectopic your chances of having another go way up...I think like 10-20% chance per pregnancy. So please always be vigilant even when you are not going through IVF so you will never end up like me.