Anybody in two week wait

[Maria2707]

I had a FET today. 2 day3 embryos transferred. Officially in 2 week wait.

[babs9199]

WOW!!  Yeah for you!!   How many embies were transferred?  That is a really high number!  Maybe twins???     What was your # on Wednesday?
Congrats!!!  That is awesome!!!  

[hopeful703]

I did a FET transfer this time and I think it was a day 5 we did fresh cycle in April. My beta came back BFP yesterday day 13 and my count was 1026. I will go back Wednesday for my 2nd Beta!

[Bmap]

Currently in my 2WW.  My beta is Tuesday and I am so nervous.  This is my second IVF cycle, first one was unsuccessful.  I can't decide if I should do a HPT.  Any thoughts????

[babs9199]

yes, the 2ww is the worst!!! i would gladly endure many more shots a day than deal with the waiting and trying to read your body for every potential symptom.  With this pregnancy, i was convinced it was a failure by day 4, b/c i had no symptoms whatsoever!!!  I was pregnant 2 yrs ago and miscarried; with that pregnancy, I had sore boobs 24 X 7 for the whole 2ww.  And also, the night before i found out i was pregnant this time, i had major period like cramps......was so sure AF was coming, i cried and told my husband it was all over. Soooo, my point is, don't beat yourself up everyday b/c you may have symptoms or you may have none and be pregnant!!  I know, easier said than done.  One thing i tried to do during my 2ww was relaxation & visualization techniques... visualizing the embies implanting.   It was part of this meditation series i bought for my whole IVF cycle that you listen to every day on your iPOD (google Circle + Bloom).   Anyway, set a time of the day to listen to relaxing spa music for an hour, and visualize your embies burrowing in!!  GOOD LUCK!!

[Blue28]

I'm now in the 2ww and it's killing me! So emotion, dreading the BFN! Desperately trying to convince myself that this time it'll be ok. How are you all doing on your 2ww?

babs9199 - thanks for giving me some hope!

[babs9199]

The little man's name is Sean.   Good luck to you on Monday!  How many embies and what was the transfer day (3-day or 5-day)?  

[hopeful703]

Congrats! Glad to hear it! What did you name your bundle of joy! I'm going in for my Beta on Monday and praying its positive and stays that way. This is our 5th IVF attempt and I'm also just turned 38 and I'm hoping my Miracle is Here!

[babs9199]

been a long time since I posted!  Wanted to give an update to spread some hope.  Had 5 poor quality embies transferred in December;  It was a day 3 transfer - - 3 were only 3 cell with tons of fragmentation; the other two were a 4-cell and a 5-cell (should be 8-cell by day 3!).   Well, got a BFP with one and had my miracle 4 weeks ago.  He is perfect and amazing.  That was my 4th and last IVF we were ever going to do. ( I was 38 when I got pregnant; My husband and i both were fertility misfits)

DON"T GIVE UP HOPE LADIES!!!!!

[Scottishmummy]

Hi Everyone
I am in my 2ww and I am going through this all by myself, I am 40 1/2, I had 3 x 5dt transfered on Wed Aug 31st, I got told the blastocyst where all in great shape, I used a Donor as I can not produce my own eggs. this is the only chance I get to be a mother and it means more than anything in the world, as Im sure you all will agree. The embryo's came from a 21yr girl and she had gave them to her aunty who couldn't have her own, she got 2 transfered and she ended up with twins, she they decided just to donate the rest of her frozen embryo's. My Dr said to stay bed rest for 36 hours but today Im still either in bed or on the couch, only getting up for the toilet or to make a snack. I have a fantastic brother & a great friend who is coming by a few times a day to make sure i still have my feet up.
Im just wondering if anyone else has had 3 x 5dt and what was the out come.
I am thinking of each & everyone of you and hopefully god takes good care of us all.
BABY DUST & STICKY VIBES TO ALL.
Stay in touch as these 2 weeks is going to be a nightmare to handle.

[ladydi03]

I am 9dp5dt.  Took a HPT on Friday, BFP.  Took another one Saturday and today and all showed the 2 pink lines and 1 of them was lighter.  I go tomorrow for my Beta test.  Then the real results will be out.

Hang in there everyone:::::)))))))))))

[bfromthed]

good luck to you. I too had my son 5 years ago the day I turned 24 weeks and he passed away 26 days later so I am so happy to hear of a success with a baby so small. Try and relax and make thet nesting enviorment nice and comfy for the little seed.

AFM all natural this month as I try and figure out which way my marriage is going. Always ptaying for all of you ladies lots of sticky vibes and baby dust!!!! God Bless
Beatrice

[Nicolest34]

In 2ww, will find out on Tuesday the 16th! I hate the waiting!! It sux. I am 7dpt. Sticky dust to all. MY MANTRA THE PAST 2W...STICK,STAYGROW!!!!

[dimples-93]

I also am in my 2WW and I feel so anxious.   I underwent a FET and had 1 blastocyst transfered on 8/4.   I go in for my BETA on 8/18.  I started spotting yesterday...it comes and goes with no other symptons.  The spotting is mainly browninsh and is usually present when I wipe.  I phoned my clinic and they stated that not to worry that at this point such spotting is no indication of anything. I had lab work today and my estrogen level is 735, which according to the nurse, is a good number.  I don't know my progesterone level yet as I should get that info. tomorrow.   I can't lie, I am somewhat worried but am keeping hopeful.  I had my first IVF on May 2007 and my son was born premature on November 2007.  I already feel blessed because my son has brought imense joy to my DH and I.  I feel comfort when I read everyone's comments.  You know exactly what I'm feeling.

I hope that good things happen to us all.

[ladydi03]

Had transfer yesterday so I am on my 2 ww (really 10 days)  who else out there is waiting it out?  1 more day of bed rest so I am just hanging out.

[bfromthed]

afm hubby came by last night we spent hours talking and have an appt with a counselor in 2 weeks. He says its not that he does not want to come back but he wants to make sure that he will never hurt me like that agin...I told him that's an excuse. We did bd...this morning though ;-) I guess whatever it takes to get my little one but no meds this month. I had a + opk yesterday hopefully something will catch.
Baby Dust and stick vibes and congrats to the bfp's and the new mommy's!
God is good we will get there!
Beatrice

[FearsomeKitty]

Hope your test goes/went well!!! sending you lots of posi+ive thoughts!!!

in fact, yes, backache and cramps can be symptoms... but like most symptoms it seems, they can be either AF or PG symptoms. I can't tell you how much I hate that. couldn't we have symptoms that are clearly one or the other!?

[hoping4baby2009]

good luck ladies
baby dust to all

[wishinforamiracle]

I am going in tomorrow the 1st and I am so nervous I can't stand it. I make the bad choice of taking a hpt and it showed negative so now I am even more scared and nervous. I am so hopeful that the hpt was wrong. I am getting cramps and lower back pain but that is about it as for symptoms. Not sure if those are even symptoms. I am going to drive myself crazy. Any advice?

[ladydi03]

Well I am back on round two.  First round we used my eggs, fertilized by DH and only had one decent one to transfer.  BFN.  So at that point, I was done and out of 25k.  

THEN, Dr. says, "well you could use another ladies eggs", I thought WHAT, had you told me the odds up front due to my age I would have done that first.

So, DH goes in for aspiration Sunday, I am using an egg donor and sharing with someone else the amount of eggs retrieved, they will then fertilize with what they get from DH, they will do PGD and all tests and then I will do the 5 day transfer.  The donor had her first round last month of donating her eggs and both ladies are pregnant.  One with a single and the other with twins.

She is 23, so my dr. put it, her eggs are young and viable and give me a much better chance of working.  I am nervous bc I closed my 401k for this last effort.  and BTW, I am 42, feeling too old for this, but my heart and soul wants a baby girl and one last shot at it.

Best wishes to you all.

[bfromthed]

hey ladies just checing in congrats to the new mommys and the bfp's and baby dust and sticky vibes to all of us trying to get to our dreams.

afm: things have been quiet my husband wants to try counseling now that he sees the grass is not that green on the other side. We will see...I will keep you posted..I am not giving up!!!!

[msem]

im in 2 week wait with 1 and only 1 donated egg (now embryo). i had the transfer done yesterday. its the only embryo i have so the pressure is on. i hate this waiting.

[Inshaa11]

Hi, To b mums :),

Iam 22 and im in my first IVF cycle........i had 4 embryos transferred and the doctor said all were of gud quality .... im keeping my fingers crossed and praying to God........Ive got my pregnancy test on 11th july i.e., monday .....just 1 day left and im stressed and excited ......please please please wish me luck and im hoping to giv you all the gud news soon.

Lots of baby dust to all,
Sid :)

[HopefulBetsy]

AKD84 - Im sorry for not writing back until now.  I took the long weekend and then 3 days off of work and went up to my parents place on the lake in NH.  It was so nice to take my mind off things for a few days.     I'm just getting back to work and my computer and just saw your note.  It really means a lot to have someone write back such kind words and I really appreciate it.   I felt the same way, I couldnt belive I was pregant! I had a whole weekl to revel in it, I probably bought 20 HPTs becuase I loved seeing the word "pregnant" . I agree, its SO expensive and so stressful.  My place has a package for $20,500 ( Not including Meds) for 2 fresh and 2 frozen cycles - cuz Im over 37 I don't qualify for the 70% back.  My biggest fear is what If I finance all this money and STILL don't have a baby.    I thought that maybe I could start the adoption process as well at the same time.  I haven't the faintest idea how to even start that.      AKD84D - did you have your succesful preganancy after the chemical? or are you still trying? I tried to look at your page but I couldn't tell.    

[AKD84]

Hi - I'm so sorry to read your post.  I had a chemical pregnancy back in November 2010 and it was devasting.  It was my very first BFP and I was over the moon that "I" could actually be pregnant.  Then the next day I started bleeding, so my dream was over quickly.  I know it hurts so so much and nothing in the world that can make this better other than a successful pregnancy.  I really hope you are able to find the funding to continue with IVF.  It just s u c k s that it's so expensive!!  I've heard from many people that once they have more success when they pay with their own money, rather than insurance coverage.  I know it doens't make sense at all, but I know 2 women who didn't get pregnanct with insurance funding and got pregnant on their cycle that they paid out of their pocket.  Please keep the strength and faith.  God will surely bless you with a child!

bfromthed - so sorry to hear about you and DH.  Why are some of us put through so many tests in life?  I admire your faith and positivity and pray that you are blessed with a lifetime of happiness and a healthy child.