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Calling All Women of Strength!!!

A Strong Woman VS. A Woman Of Strength


A strong woman works out every day to keep her body in shape…
But a woman of strength builds relationships to keep her soul in shape.

A strong woman isn't afraid of anything…
But a woman of strength shows courage in the midst of fear.

A strong woman won't let anyone get the better of her…
But a woman of strength gives the best of herself to everyone.

A strong woman makes mistakes and avoids the same in the future…
A woman of strength realizes life's mistakes can also be unexpected blessings and capitalizes on them.

A strong woman wears a look of confidence on her face…
But a woman of strength wears grace.

A strong woman has faith that she is strong enough for the journey…
But a woman of strength has faith that it is in the journey that she will become strong.

Author Unknown.
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Michelleinhawaii is CANCER FREE!!! Congrats & best wishes =)
Arlotheslug: We're praying that you're home, loving your little girl!!! Update soon =)
Rachjas: Our hearts, thoughts & prayers are with you & your family! (D&C tomorrow)
Scripps: You're in our thoughts & prayers! (appt 8/31)

Leighanne: 2/10/09 Jaedyn Michael was born beautiful & healthy!
Vortex: On 4/20/2009, Sahana was born! (Check out her pics!!!)
Joyce: 5/28/09 Daniel Joseph was born, 8lbs, 8oz and 19 3/4 inches long.
Jessie: 6/11/09 Zachary Kaden arrived at 5:43am. 7 lbs, 12 oz and 20.5 inches long
Armyprincess: 7/24/09, Jeremy Michael was born 9lbs, 3 ozs & 20 inches
Stacey: 8/12/09, Jake Harrison was born a healthy 6 pounds! Check out his handsome pics! =)

Kaylee_Frye: BFP- 33 weeks with Hayden!!!
Luvkayln: BFP!!! 22 weeks with Adalynn Noelle!!! =) (appt 9/8)
Dnikkki: BFP!!! - 14 weeks!!! (appt 9/15)
Looloo: BFP!!! 14 Weeks!
Mommyin10: BFP!!! 8 Weeks with twins! (1st ob appt is tomorrow, last RE appt Sat.)
sbumblebeeo: BFP! 7 Weeks!

Keyan: Will ttc after last Lupron shot is out of her system!!! =)
Guesito: Meeting with new RE 9/10!
mrspace: Working with the doc on finding a solution/results - Stay strong!

Hannah: CD5 (appt 9/9)
Naf: CD5
Candie: CD15
Pyar: CD16
Lina: CD19
jmh2005: CD24
ad_06: CD26
Mamatina: CD44
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655897 tn?1328018445
Hi everyone!  I am back from the Poconos after three weeks.  I have not caught up on all of the posts yet but it looks like everyone is doing well.  I am glad everyone is doing well.  I am hoping to do an IUI cycle in September but I am not sure yet.
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291233 tn?1347297526
No one can blame you.  Your experiences with your last pregnancy was terrible but that isn't going to happen this time.  It was a crazy fluke that should never have happened and your doctors know what to look for now.  I bet you are going to have the most perfect little girl anyone has ever seen!  You deserve it more than anyone I know including myself.  

God Bless you and your baby!!!!
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449498 tn?1338772039
sbumblebeeo: I think it's your own personal decision if you want to bd or not... Honestly, I don't feel comfortable doing it, and we really only have a few times during this pregnancy. Reason being, and I hate to even talk about this, but when I was pregnant with Kayln, we had sex all the time. So 3 days before we lost her, we had sex, and you know what... she got scared or something and jumped up into my ribs and it was the most painful experience ever! She stayed there for about 30 minutes, and it's my belief that when she relaxed and went back to down to being head down, her cord then got wrapped around her neck and got the knot in it. I have 13 weeks to go, and I'm not trying to risk anything!! Trust me, I can't get that out of my head, and I worry non-stop about something happening to Adalynn. I'm not trying to scare you, it's definately your decision and you are still very early, so like the other girls said, it's fine as long as there's no bleeding. But I'm at the point where sex isn't even appealing to me, it's my child that's #1, nothing else. This is just my personal decision inspired by my own personal fear.

Pyar- Congrats on being 5dpo! I'm sorry you're not too hopeful this cycle, and I hope things get better with you and dh! We will all still hold out lots of hope for this time! :)

Dnikki- Hhmm.. you should be able to search for "ultrasound gel" on ebay, and you should be able to find a good deal. I'll see what I can find for you. :) That's awesome that you'll be getting your monitor soon, that way you'll be able to hear the baby at any point! :) Have a great day at work!

Mommyin10- Yes, unfortunately i'm working until midnight tonight, and then tomorrow I'm working until 10. I'm off on Sunday, so that's good! :) Here's an early congrats for tomorrow's ultrasound, and it being your LAST visit to the RE! Yay! :)

Candie- Hey there! It's so good to hear from you! :) I'm glad you're starting to feel better! Hopefully if no luck this cycle, you'll be able to start your Femara next cycle! Are you thinking you'll be able to? Good luck this time though! Fingers are crossed!!!! ;)

Keyan- Thanks for the note! :) I'm excited to only have 13 more weeks! That seems so unreal! :)
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299260 tn?1304216105
How are you & Hayden doing?
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299260 tn?1304216105
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Michelleinhawaii is CANCER FREE!!! Congrats & best wishes =)
Arlotheslug: We're praying that you're home, loving your little girl!!! Update soon =)
Rachjas: Our hearts, thoughts & prayers are with you & your family!
Scripps: You're in our thoughts & prayers! (appt 8/31)

Leighanne: 2/10/09 Jaedyn Michael was born beautiful & healthy!
Vortex: On 4/20/2009, Sahana was born! (Check out her pics!!!)
Joyce: 5/28/09 Daniel Joseph was born, 8lbs, 8oz and 19 3/4 inches long.
Jessie: 6/11/09 Zachary Kaden arrived at 5:43am. 7 lbs, 12 oz and 20.5 inches long
Armyprincess: 7/24/09, Jeremy Michael was born 9lbs, 3 ozs & 20 inches
Stacey: 8/12/09, Jake Harrison was born a healthy 6 pounds! Check out his handsome pics! =)

Kaylee_Frye: BFP- 34 weeks with Hayden!!! We're all praying for a healthy delivery!!!
Luvkayln: BFP!!! 23 weeks with Adalynn Noelle!!! =) (appt 9/8)
Dnikkki: BFP!!! - 15 weeks!!! (appt 9/15)
Looloo: BFP!!! 14 Weeks!
Mommyin10: BFP!!! 9 Weeks with twins! (last RE appt Tomorrow., ob appt 9/8)
sbumblebeeo: BFP! 8 Weeks! (appt 9/18)

Keyan: Will ttc after last Lupron shot is out of her system!!! =)
Guesito: Meeting with new RE 9/10!
mrspace: Working with the doc on finding a solution/results - appt Fri.

Hannah: CD9 (appt 9/2)
Naf: CD9
Candie: CD19
Lina: CD23
jmh2005: CD28
ad_06: CD30
Mamatina: CD48

pyar:  5dpo
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Candie:  It's always great to hear from you ;)  Even though it's a slow process, I'm happy to hear your body is healing.  Have a wonderful weekend!

sbumblebeeo:  I'm glad you feel the stretching too!  Haha =)  I think I'll ask my RE tomorrow if that's what it is.  That's great that the Zofran is helping you!  Yes, you are tiny at 108.  Is that a normal weight for you, a pre-pregnancy weight?  To help with constipation, be sure to drink A LOT of water all day long & get lots of fiber.  I've read up on it & Raisin Bran for breakfast is great, also Fiber One has some really good chewy granola-type bars.  I keep one in my purse each day.  As far as intimacy, I agree with dnikki.  I had been waiting too 'cause I couldn't remember if I was told to wait till I see or hear the hb!  My ob said, go ahead and bd, exercise, etc...  I decided I'll hold off on the exercise, though.  I couldn't forgive myself if anything happened...  I'm glad you're feeling better!!!

pyar:  Good to hear from you :)  Sorrry you don't feel positive about this cycle, but sometimes you never know...  Best wishes!

dnikki:  Sounds like a fun night! =)  I tried your link, but it didn't work.  I'll try again.  Have a great day!

Luvkayln:  How are you?  Are you working this weekend? ;)

Keyan:  So, tomorrow  you meet with your doc to pay the bill?  When will he examine you to see if the PCOS is due to the Lupron or not?  I hope you're feeling better & you have a good weekend =)
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478429 tn?1265244387
Quick update!!! I have to get ready for work =)
We went for a nice trip to the fair last night and had a blast!! DS LOVED the animals!!! We really didn't eat much fair food - but I did end up getting sick and tmi diarrhea also. Just once though...I feel better this morning. I wish I would have gotten a little more sleep to run on today!!! I should be recieving my fetal doppler soon, I'm pretty sure it was shipped yesterday!!! I'll update on everyone later!! Have a good day!!!


Hugs, Love and SSBD to all :-)
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Hi ladies sorry i've been missing lately just thought i'd pop in and update i'n 5dpo but really have no hope this month.Hubby and I have been having issues.I will catch up when I have more time I hope you are all welll see you for now.
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574521 tn?1313495146
Sorry for venting!!! I just want to pull my hairs out. I need to forget about everything and everyone thats upseting me and focus on getting mentally healthy to TTC.  Thanks for listening!!!!
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398038 tn?1247857003
Hi there everyone!  So great to see so many happy, healthy pregnant ladies and so many new additions.  I'm so happy for you all.  I've been checking in to make sure you're all OK, just not posting.

Thank you all for your notes, I will definitely catch up with you all soon.  I've been feeling a little better each day, just a slow process.

Take care my friends!  :)
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478429 tn?1265244387
sbumblebeeo: As long as you aren't bleeding and the doc didn't give you any restrictions on that particular issue - You should be fine. I was the same way, but also thought, well the RE has done how many vaginal u/s...?? Go ahead and do the deed!!
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291233 tn?1347297526
So can someone please ease my mind about being intimate with my husband?  We have not BD'ed since we concieved in July.  I just have it in my head that if the doctor can stick his wand in there and see the baby then Larry can stick his "wand" in there and poke it or cause me to lose another one.  We asked the doctor and he said as long as we don't bleed we're fine but I just can't get it out of my head.  He is starting to get anxious and asked how much longer he needs to wait.  Anyone else wait?  Am I just too paniced?
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574521 tn?1313495146
So upset right now!!!!!! daughter not moving in with me....decided to stay homeless with her husband living in different homes everyday! Nursery is just making me break down!

sorry :(
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291233 tn?1347297526
kaylee-  Don't worry.  You are far enough along that your baby will be just fine.  It not than the doctor would have tried to stop the contractions again.  They know what they're doing.  Keep your thoughts positive and we'll keep praying for you.  All will be just fine, you'll see!

mommyin10- Yes you did make me feel much better.  I hope your right and this little one catches up just like yours!  The doctor gave me Zofran for all the vomitting and it has worked like a charm.  I put the weight back on that i lost and that is a good thing.  I'm pretty small at 108.  He also gave me the prescription prenatals.  I was taking the over the counter kind.  I want to go back to those.  These new ones make me constipated.  I haven't gone potty since I started taking them last Friday.  UGH my belly hurts.  I'm really glad you said you can feel your belly stretching.  I thought I was crazy!  I swear I feel it too from time to time.  I hope that means they are all growing just as they should.  I cant tell you how happy I am for you.
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745101 tn?1293038814
Thanks for all your words -- having the support helps more than you know.  

They said that babies born at 34 weeks generally need a little more care, but that they do just fine and there is no reason to worry.  I'm not sure why it wasn't very reassuring, but... I just know that she probably won't be quite 5 lbs yet.  I just want her to be healthy, you know and I guess I prepare for this just yet?  I am trying to *calm down* though and take a warm bath to see if it helps.  If they get closer together still or more painful in the next hour, I will go back in.

I woke up the hubbie and so we'll wait it out together.

I'll update you guys soon.
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299260 tn?1304216105
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Michelleinhawaii is CANCER FREE!!! Congrats & best wishes =)
Arlotheslug: We're praying that you're home, loving your little girl!!! Update soon =)
Rachjas: Our hearts, thoughts & prayers are with you & your family!
Scripps: You're in our thoughts & prayers! (appt 8/31)

Leighanne: 2/10/09 Jaedyn Michael was born beautiful & healthy!
Vortex: On 4/20/2009, Sahana was born! (Check out her pics!!!)
Joyce: 5/28/09 Daniel Joseph was born, 8lbs, 8oz and 19 3/4 inches long.
Jessie: 6/11/09 Zachary Kaden arrived at 5:43am. 7 lbs, 12 oz and 20.5 inches long
Armyprincess: 7/24/09, Jeremy Michael was born 9lbs, 3 ozs & 20 inches
Stacey: 8/12/09, Jake Harrison was born a healthy 6 pounds! Check out his handsome pics! =)

Kaylee_Frye: BFP- 34 weeks with Hayden!!! We're all praying for a healthy delivery!!!
Luvkayln: BFP!!! 23 weeks with Adalynn Noelle!!! =) (appt 9/8)
Dnikkki: BFP!!! - 15 weeks!!! (appt 9/15)
Looloo: BFP!!! 14 Weeks!
Mommyin10: BFP!!! 9 Weeks with twins! (last RE appt Sat., ob appt 9/8)
sbumblebeeo: BFP! 8 Weeks! (appt 9/18)

Keyan: Will ttc after last Lupron shot is out of her system!!! =)
Guesito: Meeting with new RE 9/10!
mrspace: Working with the doc on finding a solution/results - appt Fri.

Hannah: CD8 (appt 9/2)
Naf: CD8
Candie: CD18
Pyar: CD19
Lina: CD22
jmh2005: CD27
ad_06: CD29
Mamatina: CD47
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Kaylee:  Wow, it is getting close!  Did the doctors give you any reason to worry if Hayden comes early?  I know it's got to be scary, but you & your little one are in our thoughts and prayers!!!  I'm glad to hear you're off work & taking it easy :)  Keep us posted & take care, Mommy!!! =)

sbumblebeeo:  I bet your little one will be just fine =)  I know it's hard not to worry, but to see that mine was over a week behind and is now just a day behind, I hope that gives you some hope ;)  I have another u/s on Sat., so it'll be good to see how they've grown.  I had the worst time walking the dog last night.  My whole belly felt like it was stretching!  I wonder if that's when the growth spurts happen?!  Did your doc give you any meds? I hope you're feeling better!!

luvkayln:  Happy 23 Weeks! =)

Candie:  Where have you been?  I hope you're feeling better! ;)

Keyan:  I'm glad your temps are getting cooler!  OMG, it's back up to the high 90s here & just hot, hot winds ;(  It's miserable!  Feels like walking through an oven...  maybe more so 'cause I'm pregnant?!  Who knows! ;)  Good luck with your medical bills!
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478429 tn?1265244387
Kaylee: It's good to hear from you! I'm sorry about the contractions, but if you're getting them again and they are closer together - you need to go back to L&D right away! Did they say why they weren't going to stop it again? Best of luck to you and you know we'll all keep you and little Hayden in our thoughts and prayers! Update us ASAP!!! GOOD LUCK!!
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688022 tn?1275944889
Good morning everyone!  It's a MUCH better day today!  My temps went down quite a bit this morning, which is a great sign.  DH and I ended up in the hospital last night around 11:30pm.  At about 10:30m, I had started making supper (since DH gets off work at 11pm) and I started getting a small headache.  By 11pm, I was not doing good.  My left side (bad ovary side) kept having sharp pain after sharp pain.  My head was killing me.  And I felt nauseated.  So then at 11:30, I started vomiting really bad.  I took my temp and it had spiked from about 98.2 (took it at around 7pm) to 101.9.  So we rushed to the ER.  Luckily, my ovary/tube did not rupture.  My ovary is still really really big and the doctors don't really know why I got so sick.  By about 1am my temp was back to normal and I was feeling much better.  The doctor said it could be a hormonal thing too.  Since my hormones are all over the place.  So now, it's back to just taking it easy.  We'll know more tomorrow after my appointment.

DH's update is great too.  We think we found a psych guy around this area to go talk to.  According to his website, he specializes in military ptsd, but he's not a part of the VA.  He has a separate business specifically for that reason.  For some reason, sometimes, men and women in the armed forces get treated like **** if they mention ptsd or needing help.  It's stupid.  So this guy is off base so that they can come to him without feeling like less of a soldier/Marine/sailor/etc.  So I think we're going to book an appointment with him.  Can't hurt, right?

luvkayln- I'm glad you are both doing so well.  I can't believe that you're over halfway through already.  I can't wait to see her.  She's going to be so perfect!

mommyin10- Thanks for all the support.  It's good to know that I have people who are concerned about me.  I feel so much better today, it's rediculous.  The pain is still there, but I have a lot more energy and I just feel better.   So hopefully I'll still feel this good after work and I'll be able to get a little bit of housework done!  Ha ha.  How are you doing?

stacey- Your family is so sweet and perfect. I'm so happy for you and happy that you're all home and healthy.  He's a perfect baby.  Congrats!

sbumblebeeo- Congrats on being 8 weeks!  I'm glad you are feeling better and I can't wait for your next u/s.  
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745101 tn?1293038814
Hi ladies,

I know I've been away for a while, but it's been crazy busy here.  I cannot believe I'm at the top of the list now, it doesn't seem possible!!

Please pray for my little precious baby.  I went to L&D yesterday with contractions and they said I am between 2-3 cm dilated.  They gave me medicine and the contractions stopped, so I went home.  I am off work now, but I am having contractions again this morning only closer together.  It's so early, though!!

They told me they wouldn't stop the delivery again, but just let it happen if it does.  Which makes me so scared. :(  I just want my little one to be healthy and I feel so wretched for complaining about how uncomfortable I have been...

I would appreciate your thoughts and kind wishes.

--Worried mama...
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mommyin10-  I did read that on your page and I wondered if the baby had a bit of a growth spurt.  I am so excited for you.  I am hoping that this baby just grows normally and they don't continue to tell me I've lost a few days here and there when I go back.  I am exhausted I can't imagine how you feel with two in there.  Get your rest!

luvkayln- I saw your new pic, you're so cute.  I can't wait for that baby bump you've got.  My next appointment isn't until September 18.  The doctor said he was ordering some special u/s to look for deformitites.  What ever that means.  I am hoping that is just a standard proceedure.  Well take care, you're looking great.
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478429 tn?1265244387
Just quick everyone - if you could click on this link and see if you or anyone you know recognize this tatoo - This happened VERY close to where I grew up. Things like that in that town just don't happen. If you could e-mail to people I would sure appreciate. No one knows who she is and the only thing recognizable is her tatoo...

PLEASE READ: http://www.ottawacountysheriff.org/News%20Releases/Carroll%20Township%20Body%2008-25-09.htm
If you recognize this please contact them!!!

Thanks Ladies!!
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mrspace:  You really don't have to apologize for any confusion! ;)  I was just curious & concerned.  We're all different, going through different crazy experiences.  That's good you're going back to your doc on Friday.  It sounds like he'll be keeping a close eye on you!

sbumblebeeo:  Thanks & congrats on your 8 weeks!!!  That's awesome =)  Remember I was telling you about our second baby being smaller?  Well, he/she is now only a day behind the other, so they do catch up! =)  No worries, okay?!  How are you feeling?

Hannah:  That's great news!  =)

Stacey:  It's wonderful to have you back with us!  You were definitely missed & thought of often ;)  What great news that you're home & Jake is doing so well!  Your pictures are just beautiful.  I'm just so happy for you and your family & Honey sure sounds like a great big sister!!! =)  Yes, I'm showing, but I think the clothes I wear kind of hide it.  Just today, three people at work noticed.  They already knew I was pregnant, but it was cute when they commented! :)

luvkayln:  You're so right.  I'm sure when you voice your concerns again to your doc, she'll understand ;) I was thinking of buying a monitor, too, but my ob said that when she listens to the h/b, she'll also do an u/s because otherwise you don't know if you're hearing two healthy h/b's or the same one twice... That scared me a bit.  I'll have to rely on my u/s and most likely worry in between!

Guesito:  I'm so happy to hear you & your daughter worked things out & she'll be home with you!  What wonderful news :)  Keep us posted!

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Luvkayln: Thanks!! I just ordered it and it should be here in 3 days!! Woo-hoo!! I have a cheapo one from WalMart but it doesn't do a bit of good. I couldn't hardly hear it when I was almost due with DS! It will be such a relief to hear baby anytime I want lol! Also, I couldn't find where I could buy extra gel...I typed in anything I could think of...

GUESITO: I'm glad DD is moving in with you! How fun to decorate the nursery!! Congrats on the appt. with the new RE! Keep us updated!!
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574521 tn?1313495146
quick grandbaby update....went to ob today daughter is 2cm dialated! she will be moving with me tommorow and I have been so busy decorating her nursery! cant wait! doc said baby next week 4 sure.. either natural or indused!
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449498 tn?1338772039
Dnikki- Yep! That's exactly what I have, except mine is pink and white! ;) Also, if you're anything like me, you'll run out of u/s gel asap, but you can buy more on ebay for like $3.00. :)

Stacey- Hey! :) It's good to hear from you! I've been thinking a lot about you and wondering if baby Jake was home yet or not! How sweet that Honey is so protective of Jake already! I hope my dogs react the same way to Addy. :) Gosh, that's so scary he was misdiagnosed, and that makes me nervous that they went ahead and scheduled your c-section but his lungs were slightly underdeveloped. I'll have to make sure that they check Addy's lungs before they induce me. My doctor did say at 36 weeks that she may need help breathing (would have to give her oxygen) but at 37 weeks should be fine, but still... your experience is a huge eye opener, I'm just so happy he's doing so great now and there's nothing to worry about anymore! :)

Mommyin10- Haha! ;) You're definately right, it'll be here before you know it! :) How cool that your OB is willing to do an u/s every 2 weeks! Doesn't that make you feel so great that she feels the same way you do!? I think that's awesome! :) I'm not sure if I'll get any more u/s. In fact, at my last appointment, she said there's no reason to do any unless there's something wrong, and I didn't even think of it at the time, but you know, that's exactly what they said when I was pregnant with Kayln. "Everything looks great, her growth is right on target.. we'll only do an u/s if something is wrong" bla bla bla... But the whole reason for me going to this particular hospital is b/c they specialize in high risk, and so I'll just have to tell her, I don't just want to see HER in the u/s, I want that cord checked constantly, especially near the end, ya know?? I know she's fine, so was Kayln, and look what happened! :(

Mrspace- Addy's doing great, thanks! :) Gosh, I'm so sorry for what dh is going through! That sounds terrible! :( I hope things start to get better for both of you, and you know they will! :)

Hannah- Congrats on getting your appointment moved! The 2nd is just right around the corner! Hopefully now you'll get some resolutions going, and be well on your way to your BFP! :)

sbumblebeeo: Hey, congrats on being 8 weeks... again! ;) When's your next u/s?

Ok, gotta go make dinner! Have a great night ladies! :)
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