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Feeling jealous need some support

It has been probably 3 years since I was last on here if not longer. DH and I were ttc baby #3 but found out that my one tube and ovary are blocked and my other was removed due to a ruptured ectopic. I am back today for a little support from u all, I know we all deal with this. Everyone around me is pregnant! I mean everyone! Including my BEST friend. I am trying Soo incredibly hard to b happy for her but I still deep down feel angry:( I am in school going for my bachelors and we have waited to try IVF after I'm done but that's still 3+ years away. Help me ladies I need to b talked off the ledge;)
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I can relate also, within the past 5 years more than 10 of my close friends have had children, and three new friends are pregnant. Ive been having "baby dreams" and feel sad and jealous every time I hear about someone else getting pregnant on a one night stand or within three months of being with someone and even people who don't even want children. Ive been with my bf for three years trying for almost a year to no avail. I have hormonal ovarian cysts and a tilted uterus. I understand completely though, I am so happy for them, but completely overwhelmed and jealous and feel that I will never be able to experience it.
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Hi!  I can really relate to you.   It seems everyone around me is pregnant too and my best friends is also pregnant.  It is so hard to be happy for her even though she has had struggles as well.  She had 3 miscarriages last year but this one seems to be sticking as she is 15 weeks along now.  I am really jealous of all the people I see that are pregnant and especially people who get pregnant so easily.  It makes me feel like a bad person sometimes that I feel that way and am so jealous.  It also seems like all everyone talks about is pregnancy and babies lately.  I know I am sensitive for sure.  I'm doing my first ivf cycle right now so I'm hoping for good results but I'm scared it won't be and this is our one shot at ivf.  I hope it helps to know others feel the same way you do.  I have found that I had to distance myself a little and I've also realized who my real friends are through going thru this challenge.  Good luck with the bachelor's degree and hang in there!
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1640824 tn?1325888415
Hello me and my husband have been trying to conceive for a year and eight months. My doctor put me on 50mg clomid for 6 months i had no luck with that. Me and my husband have been through test and everything is good. I have a five year old so I know I can have kids, but don't know whats going on now. My doctor has referred me to a fertility doctor on may 6 so i guess we will wait to see how that goes. Don't give up though it will come for us, we both are good mothers and our next chance will come. Good Luck keep me posted!!
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