Future Moms

[Hoping2BAMom]

Ok ladies, here's our new thread!!

[dancingmama]

Is anyone still around?
Hope everyone is okay and doing well!

[soccermom2b]

How are you?  Are you starting any treatments...IUI or IVF?

I'm having the HSG done Friday morning.  I have to do it again since it's been over three years since I last had one.  I've had all of the lab work done and DH is getting his swimmer's analyzed Fri morning too.  Then we'll make an appointment to find out what they recommend.  DH just wants to try IUI's but we did four or five of those with no success before doing IVF to get DD.  I'm just excited to be doing something.

How is your daughter?  Is she two now?  

[dancingmama]

Happy New Year!

[rmmoye]

That sounds cute! Cnat wait to see pictures.I was cramping  bad yesterday. It was low and staying in one spot. I'm praying it was a good sign.

my oldest is a knight and my 3 yr old Pooh bear.  
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[soccermom2b]

It's great to hear from you!  I'm taking a break right now from tracking with OPK's.  Still waiting to ask DH for another round of IVF for Christmas.  We'll see.  DD will be 18 months on the 11th.  DH wanted her to be a zombie for Halloween and we had a hand-me-down Steeler's cheerleader outfit so she will be a zombie cheerleader this year.  Have a great week and I hope to hear good news from you soon!

[rmmoye]

We r trying with Gods help this month. How is everyone doing.

[rmmoye]

No more embryos

[dancingmama]

rmmoye - so sorry...I don't know why  this happens....do you have any more frozen?

My heart is sad for both you and babypatch....hugs....

[rmmoye]

All beta dropped. I'm miscarrying again. I never dreamed after the first one coming at 2 years ofTTC naturally,2nd came with our first iui. That we would be sitting hear after   6 yrsTTC with no baby. Now we have failed with 5 iuis, 1 ivf, 1fet . WHAT is next/? Our surrogate is having a baby so she is no longer an option. Just trusting God.

[rmmoye]

ok girls I have done a lot of praying  for this baby and am still praying for it. They called and said 5, which makes no since. i will do more blood work tomorrow. I am staying tired, gassy and dizzy. I just know it will all be ok and my baby is still growing.
progesterone was 12.3 and estrogen was 343.3

Please pray that God helps my baby be strong!!!

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[dancingmama]

Rmmoye - good luck

Baby- i am extremely sorry. There are no words. Just don't understand it...

[rmmoye]

thanks girl, beta tomorrow. i will know results Thursday. I am not testing until tomorrow with dh. i promised i wouldn't test early.

[Lolita214]

Oh that is horrible news :-( I was just thinking about her yesterday and today and came in here to see if she had posted an update. I am completely sad , this breaks my heart :-(



Good luck rmmoye on your beta, hope everything is well

[rmmoye]

Thanks girl, i do think this is it for me. I had some brown spotting in my crinone yesterday but nothing since. i have drinking a ton of water and peeing like crazy but i think it is good fo rme.

also i am staying bloated and gassy.


ALL for babypatch: she didnt want to come on right away but her beta came back at 25. she is mcing again. just pray for her.

[dancingmama]

Good luck...sounds good...I have no idea what the grades are so of course, you go with what the RE says...I was on progesterone twice a day, so it is not weird at all...hope this is it for  you!!!

[rmmoye]

all is well with me.  the transfer was easy and painless. i was surprised when he said he was already in.  i am feeling good. so cramping and some gass. he upped my progesterone to twice a day. weird but i will do it.  I am feeling so tired today. so i am going to take it easy.  I feel so + about this one. i just know this is it for me. Dh and i prayed together about it and i felt so at peace.

ok so my grades were b4ab and b4ba. He said it was good so i am trusting him.

[dancingmama]

Gosh. Having trouble with this thread.

[dancingmama]

well... the nausea still sounds good to me...we just have to wait for the beta, but I do hope that this blast sticks around for nine months. I don't know why you had low numbers, I am just trying to rationalize.....I really have no idea, but lack of bleeding is good and so we just have to sit tight.

I hope rrmmoye's transfer went well too....it would be great if you could be pregnant together!

I am probably not going to start my cycle until October at the earliest.

[babypatch11]

How are you? I'm trying to hold it together, it's hard though. Do you think it's a late implanter or just slow growing. Even though I got a BFP just 6dpt. I can say that until Friday evening I didn't get nauseous like I was before when pregnant. I've managed to hold it down but not been real easy at times. The embryologist said my blast were BB. According to their grading they were really good. I don't know about rmmoye, I know their 2 blast. As far as the facility they just were voted for the 4th yr as top ivf clinic in United States. They are also featured in July magazine I'm trying to think of the name of magazine. They have a FB its Florida institute for reproductive medicine. Mine just seems to be a mystery I guess. But they have excellent success rates. Just not with me.
So far I'm holding on. Haven't seen any spotting had a few cramps nothing horrible. Mainly nauseous is all. I just wish Tuesday would hurry and get here. Does it sound. Little better that i havent had spotting?Maybe this time rmmoye andyself can be pregnant together. That would be so great!!!!! Her transfer is this morning sept 1. It's 4:50am I can't sleep. I Pray that her Blast thaw in great quality and stick.
When are you starting your next cycle? Hopefully soon we can all be pregnant together.

[dancingmama]

try not to be upset...you don't know where this is going yet...
the embies might be late implanters or slow growers and we just have to wait...that is all that you have to do...it is all you can do, dear...you have to wait this out and we will wait it out with you,,,i do not know why this keeps happening...seems like you and rmmoye believe the RE and his clinic are top notch, so maybe it is just the quality of the embryos?  I don't know, but let's not go there yet....try to rest up and think positively

[babypatch11]

Thank you for our help. I  on progesterone. But it's prometrium (per my request and bloodwork doesn't show up prometrium). My lower abdomen was hurting like cramping yesterday and today and back. I just chalked it up to being pregnant. They don't have me coming back til tues because their in house lab is closed til Tuesday. So my appt for next beta is tues at 9:30. I just don't know what to think. I'm so upset over this. It just keeps on happening to me. And nobody had an answer

[dancingmama]

you are just slightly off that 66% increase so don't give up...drink lots of water, rest and have them check your progesterone STAT tomorrow!

[dancingmama]

I have heard frozen transfers may start off with lower betas, but I don't know....hmmmmmm. Did you do the blood work the same time about as last 48 hours apart? I can see her concern, but you just never never know..
I wish it were more clear for you...this is just awful to go through.
My first beta was 100 something and the second was 300 something. Anything over 50 is positive and beta needs to increase 66% in 48 hours, I think they say, but don't give up yet...are you on progesterone?

[babypatch11]

I had my 2nd beta today 86 first one was 60. The nurse said she was worried. and asked if I had been spotting and if I starting bleeding over the weekend that would mean I was loosing the baby....Im so upset