I remember you too! I wasn't trying for this, it was a surprise, but I'm okay with that. I was reading online after I posted this and I think you are correct that it's supposed to be soft. I'm not bleeding and so far hCG levels look good. Went again this morning for a repeant quant. I'll here for in the morning on that.
if you aren't spotting then i wouldn't worry about it. but if you are really worried then i would call the doc. as you know cramping is normal, as for the cervix thing i think that it is supposed to be soft. but i could be wrong, I think that you are gonna be ok. but if god forbid you are m/c then there is nothing that you can do. but i hope thats not the case. good luck to you though and keep me posted. i remember you from when you were trying for your son:)
I really could use some help here:(