I need some support

[marquis824]

I have been trying to get pregnant for about 3 years now, the last year I have been seeing a fertility specialist with my husband. I am so down right now I don't know what to do...I cry at the drop of a hat and have started to withdraw from my husband. I am scheduled for a frozen transfer in  afew weeks and am just beside myself. I cannot take another negative result. I need someone to pray for me....or with me..

[marquis824]

Thank you!

[marquis824]

Thank you...I won't! Good luck to you as well.

[bny807]

so sorry to hear about what you've been going thru... as wannababe says a lot of us on here have felt the same way at times.. but the hard times do always pass.. even if more arise.. there is some sort of light at the tunnel whatever that may be!   its good to have other hobbies and keep yourself busy during this time, but i know all too well about how this whole thing can take over every thought of life.. then that makes me so angry at times!   just gotta tell yourself its all worth it in the end! you'll be holding a little one soon i'm praying for you! the good news is that male factor is super easy to fix with IVF!   we also have male factor, and lots of female factors ha!  GOOD LUCK your in my prayers!

[wannababe]

Our problem is male factor too.... I've spent hours upon hours looking up success stories on the internet and there are a lot of them.  Don't lose hope.

[marquis824]

Thank you. I try very hard to not push him away...it's more of me going into a shell and not sharing how I am really feeling...he is very supportive and I love him very much. he is hurting just as much as i am because our problem is male factor...

[wannababe]

Oh Marquis, I'm so sorry for you.  Everyone on this forum feels the same at times.  I am not an extremely religious person but my mom died last January and I have a chat with her every so often ( one sided of course! ) so I will definitely mention you.  

It's so disheartening all of these negative results.  I never ever imagined how obsessed I would be when I started trying.  It takes over my life.  I only care about getting pregnant these days which is not good.

Please don't push your husband away.  Don't lose sight of probably the first reason you wanted a baby - for both of you to love and care for and bring up together.  You need him and he needs you.  Sometimes husbands are forgotten about in this.  Talk to him or give him a hug or something.

You'll find support here.

Good luck...