All, I want to share this with you because, so far it has been such a positive experience for me, and I really believe it will have a powerful effect on my family and our relationship.
For those who don't know my back ground, I had been ttc for 2 years and after a ruptured fallopian tube and 3 IUIs, I finally got pg with the son I had been dreaming about. At 29wks I was put on strict bed rest. A family member sent me a care package with a journal. I didn't use it for my bed rest but instead, the day my son was born, I started writing journal entries to him. I don't keep a "baby book" but I do include all his milestones and developmental details in the journal. I don't write in it everyday, sometimes a couple times a week or sometimes I will skip a week or two. I write to my son like I am speaking directly to him and imagine that he will have this journal long after I am gone..
Something you might consider doing when you get your bfp.. and if you already have children, it isn't too late to start...
Just an idea I wanted to share...