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[shawn_cook]

How do u deal with the fact that you will never have kids of your own. :'(

[Teddybear1000000000000000]

This website might help for an alternative for you fairhaven.com many women with different problems who are trying to conceive but can't. They have managed to. Thought I would throw an option out there.

[icelemon]

If you are still young, start saving for ivf.  You can take up on a loan for that too. Im so sorry to hear that ur only option to hv a biological child is through ivf.  Dont give up.  I know ivf is ex.  Look into your insurance.  Most insurance cover blood test, meds and also ultra sound.  If your insurance covered all that, you might need 12 to 15 k for ivf.  If you still hv one tube, go see a fertility specialist.  Laparoscopy surgery n clear all the scar tissues.

[tasha0918]

Is there any way you can get the left tube cleaned out? There is a procedure for that. My mom had a tube burst and she had to have surgery to remove it and they cleaned out her other one and she got pregnant 6 Mons later with my baby sister, so there is hope

[shawn_cook]

I've had pid and had an ectopic I'm both tubes. The right one is gone and the left one has too much scar tissue.

[tasha0918]

I'm sorry to hear that..what did the doctor say is wrong and I know ivf is  super expensive as well. I wish you guys the best and don't give up miracles happen all day and I know it's hard but maybe you have a child out there that is waiting for you some where that you haven't found. Adoption is still an option as well...good luck

[shawn_cook]

It's looking like ivf is my only chance and its just not an option..... we can't afford it.

[ariellesmithe]

That must be pretty hard.  Is that something that the doctor told you?  Did you speak with a fertility specialist?

My heart goes out to you.