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1655673 tn?1362079051

Monday can't come quick enough!!!

Well I went to the doctors and she was completely useless to perfectly honest! The test was still faint positive but she then went on to ask about pain or bleeding? To which I said no only light pink spotting and tummy ache nothing major.to my complete horror she then said Well I do t think this baby is hanging around as your test are not getting  any darker so if there's nothing there in Monday when you have scan them.I'm sorry but it looks like you've had a early miscarriage!!!!!! So matter of fact. Not once has she even touch my skin,I even asked for a early scan but she said no Co's they wouldn't see anything (as I've got a 6 week scan on Monday) what the he'll is 2 days gonna make I asked for a blood test and she said Oh we haven't got to me now just wait for the scan. So I'm so confused and hurt because I've suffered 7 misscarriages I kind of know what and how they feel and there is no way I have lost a baby!!! Then she said Oh I can be wrong!! So let me know what happens! So this morning I had my first wee and it was light pink so I'm just praying this is spotting..I think I'm going to changed doctors or is what's she's saying true??
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Wow how what a nasty dr that was SO insensitive.  I don't know what is going on with dr know on days I keep hearing about some awful stories.  I have been spotting since 6dp5dt I am currently on 8dpt.  The spotting comes and goes ;(
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1351078 tn?1416313146
i think spotting in the beginning is normal . she is rude i would get a new dr or a seound opinion if the baby wasnt staying then the bleeding would be alot more than spotting . its really hard to see the baby until 7 + weeks hang in there ! dont let no one talk you into a d&c until you are 100 % sure of no viability  im sorry hun hope you get your miracle .
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1358553 tn?1339929881
Hey (found it) xx

It's so so hard, I find them very insensitive and they are very matter of fact about it all, they don't seem to care how we have have recurrent miscarriages and are absolutely living to be pregnant and have a baby!!

Have you done any more tests at home?? The whole getting a BFP is just the beginning of more waiting, confusion and dread and you'd think they would be more supportive, especially given your history and the fact repeat tests have been faint, all this waiting is torture - it really is :(
Saying that I don't have any definite answers about it - you have a BFP so "something" has happened and whether its just taken a bit longer for your levels to rise and that's why you had 2 faint tests is something you can't really know - the only thing I did was take a clear blue test that says how far you are then take another one the next week..
For me they both said 1-2 weeks preg and I knew my sister had had it say 1-2 then it did say 3+ the next week and that made me realise things weren't right and I did then miscarry but as hard as that was (again) I still preferred to know either way as being in limbo is awful!!
I really really hope and am wishing that this is a blip and little eggy in snuggling in, I wish I'd stamped my feet and got progesterone as soon as I found out as I've been told my levels had been low but when I asked they wouldn't give it :( I'll never know if that would of helped - I know of someone going to A&E with fake pain and they scanned them - as she had had previous mc and was beside herself with worry... Only thing they are right about is they can't see much to indicate a viable pregnancy til 6 weeks that's why they say that as a matter of course but before that they can normally see a sac and if "something" is happening!! I hope the weekend goes really quick for you and I hope you get amazing news on Monday I really do xx
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1386655 tn?1452097056
I'm so sorry your doctor is so insensitive.  I would what you feel in your heart, if you want a scan, ask for it again.  If you feel different this time, maybe you should follow your own feelings.  The other thing is look for another dr if it makes you feel better.  Best of luck to you!
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