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200957 tn?1236136923

Need your prayers!!! and support.

First i want to tell All you ladies that have supported me through this crazy journey in the past week. THANK YOU!!! Especially those who stay prayerful and full of faith. Even when GOD doesn't do things our way. I am still learning. But giving it my all this time. Yesterday I went in to see my OB. Finally gave my RE the BOOOOT!! Can you believe she was still making excuses. She called me on Sat. to tell me she was aware and understood my concerns, things have just gone wrong with my case. I reminded her twice. While she was trying to pretend as though she really cared, she was making every excuse as to why it was not her fault. I was good, especially since my tongue at times is like a razor. I listened, and told her I just was not returning to her office any longer. I mean to tell me I was, no I mean I had m/c and then to have my levels be at 5013 with a HB and a baby. I don't really care whose fault it is. Your the Dr? Right? I politely told her I have sought the advise of another RE. Anywho, went to my OB had my levels drawn yesterday (4 days after my levels magically jumped to 5013) they are over 17,000. Here is where it gets tricky, Where I need all you ladies with strength to help. Had another U/S with a specialist my old RE suggested. There are 2 sacs for sure. One is empty, and one has a baby measuring to date, HB of 160, but the gestational sac is still small for it's stage. 5 days behind. The Dr. said he is not optimistic but anything could happen, he wants to see me in 2 weeks. I just wish I could know for sure. UUGH!! My OB says we are moving forward since there is a stronger HB than 4 days ago (140) and the sac has grown, plus my levels more than tripled. I just need some good prayers. to teach me to be faithfull.
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581359 tn?1454006442
Good luck, you have both my support and prayers.  How far along did you make it with your other M/C's, if you don't mind me asking.  If you would rather not talk about them, that's understandable to.  Did the Dr say there was anything you could do to help the sac grow? I hope everything works out.  I'm praying for you and your little bean.
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494640 tn?1262737989
hunny goood luck my preyers are with u x
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353148 tn?1293061164
I have seen ao many crazy things on this forum and w/ my own experience that I have all the faith this baby will be fine. Just keep pulling GOD closer to your heart and he will guide you through this.


Good Luck,
Jenea'
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200957 tn?1236136923
BB4: I know how you feel. Just want definate answers. Usually there aren't any. We pay these Dr.'s all this money, to hear what they "think" or their "opinion." This is wh I absolutely love my OB. He is always so positive about things. My RE she was always in a hurry, and sure of herself. I have learned she speaks without meaning anything. I also had a m/c in Sept. M/C #6. this was after my 1st IVF cycle. When we talked at the post consult I asked her about PGT to ensure my eggs wher good. She told me there was no proof PGT raises your chances of viable pregnancy. her office did not perform them. Then this Sat, when she called she told me next time I should try to do PGT. She actually told me her office does it. My mouth dropped. My point is stay strong. This is the hardest thing I have had to walk through. We don't control the outcome not matter, how many medication's we are on. How much we do or don't do. I truely believe now, (and still learning) God takes us through this to show us it's not that simple to create a life. I don't care how much experience or knowledge a Dr. has. Good luck and stay strong.
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AAWW I am sorry for what has happened. I bet you are on a emotional roller coaster and your definately in my thoughts and prayers and hopefully the baby just keep growing and getting stronger..  I have been so out of the loop since my Sept when i had my m/c. Husband and I are back on the fertility train again, my period never came after my m/c so she had put me on prometrime to jump start it, then come to find out after my period flow I never ovulated, so today she had put me on Metformin for 3xs a day, which is good so I can drop weight and if my period doesnt come by thursday, back on prometrime but she had took my progesterone levels and was a 3. Nurse said I may ovulate late due or my period may be coming.. Anyways sorry to blab on, I am thinking about you and I am praying everything goes well.
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655897 tn?1328018445
I am glad you gave your old doc the boot...good for you to stand up to her!!  I just know your baby will pull through....please stay positive and try to relax so the baby has the best chance to make it.  I sure hope he/she does:)  PLease keep us updated.
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405370 tn?1332206110
wow.  What a story.  I will be praying that your lil babe hangs in there and in two weeks you'll have a perfect ultra-sound! I love hearing about your faith!
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478429 tn?1265244387
I'm so happy your levels are so high!!! I will most def. keep you in my prayers that your little bean makes it... I truly hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months. You deserve it hon =) I'm getting to the end of my tww....

Hugs, love, luck and SSBD
((HUGS))
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229439 tn?1245812437
I think everything will be ok with your little bean. They say that miscarriage drops to 3% once you can see a strong HB so stay positive. I find everything goes right when you try to think everything is going great instead of worrying about what can happen. I worried the hole time I was TTC then once I did my first IVF I had no worries anymore and ended up pregnant with no complications to date and I am 11wks. I'll pray for you and you baby. But I know you will carry to a healthy 9 months.
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294043 tn?1354207946
OMG, what a journey!  I hope your little peanut pulls through!!  160 is a strong heartbeat and I am very hopeful that everything will finally be OK.  
Hang in there!!  

Please post an update in 2 weeks
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