Negative Beta :(

[ourdestiny]

I had my beta today and they just confirmed that it is BFN :( I'm so sad right now, but at the same time I'm glad I did an HPT because I've been preparing myself since then, anyway it doesn't matter how much you try to get ready for this result, it's never easy. We were so exciting and even looked at nursery room ideas in the internet...we are sooo ready to have a baby and I would like to understand why God doesn't give us the chance?
Well we're not giving up, that's for sure! I have my next appt on the 28th, let's see what the Dr says...as of right now I have to cry and have a little time on my own.. :(

[Hope_ak]

We are in the same boat.  So heartbreaking.  My RE said..sorry it's negative..... that's it  sorry.... try again....

[smoon14]

Unfortunately, it's not my turn this time my HCG went to 0 so there isn't anyway that I am going to get pregnant.

But! We are going to try again next month so still there's a hope and still have a faith!!!!!

Good luck to others who currently on their 2ww!!!!

Baby dust to each and every one of you!

[gobruins]

Sorry to hear that! I had 2 IVFs before, both betas came back positive, but when I went for the Ultrasound there wasn't heart beating. I just had my Beta today and it is positive again(181). One of my friend ask asked me if I was excited...then I answer: I'll be when the baby is born.  It is so hard for me to get excited yet.Wish u the best from the bottom of my heart! Don't give up!

[rghkah38]

I am really sorry.  You are right having a baby is priceless.  It took my dh and myself a long time before we had our dd.  I hope your next attempt is a sucessful one.

[ourdestiny]

Thank you all soo much! I'm so glad I found this forum, this would be a lot harder without your support, and appreciate every single post.

Aleasa: Thank you for that link! I decided I'm going to go and pay whatever it costs. After all having a baby is priceless ;)

[hope2b888]

I am so sorry for that.I my self cried fr hours and hours and still my eyes are teary.Do you have any frozen embies?When are you going to have ur second attempt?LOTS OF BEST WISHES ON YOUR WAY

[smoon14]

Girl! Thats the spirit!!!! I hope you'll get a good news on your next appt.
Keep us posted ok?


Kricket212- i had my first bfp at 28 then dropped to 5.81


Sending everyone some hugs*

[aleasa]

Here is a community acupuncture listing.  It can be as low as $20 per session.  Save up and budget for acupunture for your next session.  It is so important.  http://www.communityacupuncturenetwork.org/clinics/other
You are young!  Was this your first try?  I also had a failed first try, then I got maaaaad!  Went to Mexico on vacation, read a ton of books on Taking Charge of Your Fertility, Nurturing yourself through IVF, and I was prepared and didn't even pay attention to it in my 2ww.  I spoiled myself.  I'm telling you.. You have to be happy... those stress hormones are what'll getcha.  ughhh.  Please contact me if I can help in any way.  

[mhv]

I am sorry to hear about your bfn.  We are hear for you!  It will happen!  

[Kricket212]

I am sending you some big hugs.  Stay strong & hang in there.  For many people it doesn't work on first time without explanation. You will get there!!!!!!!!!

SMOON14- Congrats to you. What were your beta #'s? I pray they keep climbing....

[ourdestiny]

Thank you!!! and yes I'm just taking the time to be sad and cry and get it all out, it's imposible to just go back to normal so easily, but I'm not loosing hope...I already have the next appt on the 28th, let's see what the Dr says...we're  not giving up on our baby! :)

[ourdestiny]

Thank youu soo much for your kind words...hopefully the second time will also work for us and we'll get our most wanted BFP! Good luck to you and you will be in my prayers...stay positive!!!!

[sunshine139]

I am so sorry to hear about this.  Hang in there and take all the time you need to grieve this, but don't lose hope.  It will happen for you

[smoon14]

Hi~
I read your post and I really do feel for you~
Sometimes things happened the way we never expected...
I had my first IVF last Dec. 18 and had my first BFN last dec. 29~
It really did hurt me~I couldn't overcome the pain.I cried for hours.
So, we tried again last month Jan.18 and finally got my first BFP!!!!!
But sadly I had a love HCG level and the saddest part is that my HCG result
on my second blood test DROPPED! I already considered my 3rd blood test BFN this coming feb.7
And now i'm 18dpo yet no sign of period.

I am praying for your next try and hopefully this time BFP!!!!!!!!
Sending you lots of hugs!

[ourdestiny]

Thank you both for your kind words....I know it will happen, I'm not giving up! We need this baby too much :)

[trh0819]

So sorry to read of your negative beta. It's always difficult no matter how well you think you've prepared yourself. But... it will make that BFP all the better when it happens. And it WILL happen.

[lisa1905]

So sad, and I am so sorry to hear that  , I know its hard , ur young and can try it again don’t cry , try to go to walk or shopping or movie I believe that  the next time is ur time and  u will get a BFP sending a lot of baby dust 