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B74
Anybody going to do and IVF either with donor or own eggs in October?
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My heart is with you take the time you need to get through this emotional time.  I pray for you and your family.
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1293683 tn?1334019210
Oh my love. I am so so sorry. Our u/s yesterday had the same result but we were preparing ourselves for it. I know that feeling when you're staring at that screen so hopeful. My heart goes out to you darling. It's just not fair that we don't get to hold our babies! I am getting by with lots of cuddles from hubby. Look after yourself sweetheart xx
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1236771 tn?1331736211
U/S today showed no HB.  Our baby is gone.  Looks like this was not our time.  D&C scheduled for tuesday.  I am just numb right now.  Words can't describe the grief and pain I feel.  
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Has anybody ever been tested for the natural killer cell?  I was thinking about mentioning this to my dr next was as I was d/n with cf/fms after my first DD and was wondering if this might be playing a part in my fertility issues.  Better to find out now before doing a FET.
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1446228 tn?1330968686
Hey!  I will be right there with you in January, as I will be trying again then as well.

Lots of thoughts and prayers for us as we continue our journey!
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Thanks for all your support, dr said I can try again in Jan. need to have one regular cycle before we can try again.  I am so excited for everyone that has had BFP this month and look forward to reading updates on your babies.
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Hi ladies,

Well ultrasound yesterday at 6w2d show crl of 5.67 mm with heartrate of 119.  The doc said this was good.  It seems like the heartrate should have been a little higher????  Any thoughts?

Thanks......
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1293683 tn?1334019210
hey love .. please try not to worry .. congrats on seeing that beautiful hb .. it will be stronger in a weeks time .. some bubs just take a little longer to get started .. doesn't mean there's anything wrong! also, at such an early stage, it is really hard for sonographer's to get accurate measurements .. I have a retroverted uterus, so the technician never knows if the picture is good enough to be accurate in their measurements.

your u/s next week will show good growth I'm sure .. please try to relax .. I know it's easier said than done and I'm the worst person when it comes to worrying .. I think it was a bit wrong of your doc to worry you!

good luck!!!
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1236771 tn?1331736211
Had u/s today.  We saw it's heartbeat, which was pretty cool.  Rate was 102 and Dr said I was measuring smaller than I should be.  I measured 6wks and I should be almost 7wks.  He also asked if I had any bleeding/spotting.  Should I be worried at all??  My last beta was 1599 and they never repeated it after that.  I haven't had any cramps, just the pulling on my right from the cyst.  He wants me back in a week for another u/s.  Praying that everything is ok.  Do you think me working midnights and not sleeping very well has anything to do with this??  So confused and scared.  Hope everyone is doing well.

Alli - how did your u/s go???
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Tones99 - SOOOOO glad to see your good update!  I will keep hoping it goes up and up!!
B74- yes, you have to wait a while for your next u/s, but that's only because you're pretty much in the clear!  woo hoo!
maria- will look for YOUR u/s results next Friday...
Will let you all know how my Friday u/s goes.  It can't get here fast enough.
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B74
TMum13: I am so sorry, i really am. Just have to keep on. That is only ting we can do.


Allip77: That is when i saw the heartbeats, 7 and 3 days, so I wish you luck!
My next US in on the 29th at the OBGYN. So that is my next step. I feel like it is far away.
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1293683 tn?1334019210
test results are in .. up to 1470 which is a good increase from 293 on friday .. lets hope it just goes up and up!
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I know the feeling..:) I am doing alright. I am 5.3 weeks, have my first us next Friday.
Wow! your us is this Friday! Great, I am very happy for you.. We are 2 2pn buddies..:) you will get to see your little cuties heart flicker.. I cant wait tonget the update on friday. keep me posted.
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Hi Maria (my fellow 2 2pn FET transfer girl!) - I'm doing okay, although every once in a while I get panicked about something or other!  My OB was unable to get me next week for an 8-week ultrasound but she had a cancellation for this Friday so I'm going in then- I'll be 7 weeks 3 days.  Cannot WAIT.  Desperate to see the heartbeat and move through this first trimester!

How are you doing?  Are you about 5 1/2 or 6 weeks now?  I forgot, what meds are you on now?
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1446228 tn?1330968686
I am so very sorry to hear your news...I will be praying for you
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So sorry to hear...I'm sure it will happen soon. Keep in touch...you're in my prayers.
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604185 tn?1233960857
How are you feeling?
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1293683 tn?1334019210
I am so so sorry sweetheart!  there is nothing more awful than going to see your baby so excited and then being so disappointed!  I really feel for you .. with an earlier m/c, if you leave it to pass naturally, most doctors will say wait one cycle before trying again .. because you have snowbabies, you don't have to worry about putting your body through that stress again so can go sooner than a fresh cycle.

I really feel for you and the pain you must be feeling .. just take some time to grieve and look after yourself honey xx
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I am so very sorry for your news.  I had a m/c last year so I know how sad you are feeling right now and I am so sorry.  For some reason, this isn't your time but thank god you have your snowbabies so you can try again- you'll get your baby #2.  I don't know how long your doctors will have you wait for your next cycle.  For me, I had a D&C and it took 6 weeks to get my period back.  Then we started trying naturally right away, even though my doctor had said to wait one more cycle.  Best of luck and take care.
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Went for u/s today and there was no sac yolk h/b a BFN. Don't know what my fifth beta was but it looks like a m/c I have never had a m/c and do not know what to expect I a currently 6wks 5d according to ER and ET date.  I am very sad and am sad for anyone else who has went through m/c.  I wonder how long I will have to wait to try again with our snowbabies....

B74- Wow I am so happy for you, I hope you have a wonderful pregnancy. Make sure to keep us posted
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604185 tn?1233960857
Congratulations! Have a safe and happy pregnancy!
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Thinking of y'all.
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I am soooooooooooo happy for you.....you deserve this! Congrats....now, you better rest up and get two of everything!!! ;)
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1446228 tn?1330968686
Congrats!  How FUN are twins going to be?!?!  Hope you are feeling amazing right now!
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