Oh so confused, need a little cheering up :(

[Sazy26]

Don't you hate it how you convince yourself you're not pregnant and then develop pregnancy symptoms and take preg test and it says negative? I've only started charting again halfway through this cycle (m/c twins in Nov) and so I'm not sure if I ovulated when I think I did (6 days ago??) I'm now on CD26. For the last couple of days I've had unbelievably sore bbs and though I dared not let myself believe, I thought I could actually be pregnant. Took a First Response Early Pg Test and BFN. I did take it at night so I'm not sure how much to take that into consideration. My cycles are irregular, though lately have been around 26 to 28 days. My partner and I have been referred to a fs as we have been trying for 2years. My wonderful partner has suffered from performance anxiety so we can't BD more then once or so a week (even though his sperm analysis is exceptionally good). Feeling pretty horrible.  We BD'd on CD17 and possibly O'd on CD20. Oh who knows... just trying to stay positive! Would love to be able to develop some friendships here to help me get through this over the next .... however long. I won't stop until I'm pg, I know that for sure.

[TnTadpole]

wow they deleted a word that isn't even bad in my book, it rhymes with zap.

[TnTadpole]

I am in your same boat I think, 6 DPO here. Been TTC for 3 years, just now going to an RE July 29th. I have sore BB's too and feel like ****. I don't know, I am so used to negative tests, then get the weirdo preg/af symptoms.....month after month, year after year. I dunno what the answer is for all of us. I pray you all get your BFP's soon. I will say that I haven't been on this site since my m/c in 2006.... and of the names I recognized, all of them have babies now, some are even pregnant with their 2nd, so it gave me hope. I come here to give and to get support! Any time :-D

[SueGre]

Hi. Did you say you think you O'd 6 days ago? If that's right then it's waaaaay too early to test. You wouldn't get an accurate test until around 11 or 12 dpo or even later than that. I think I will O tomorrow as my OPK is getting darker. I've got cramps and my bbs are really sore. My current hurdle is determining when I actually O so we can BD at the right time. I often wonder if we've missed it :0(

SSBD!!!!!

[Sazy26]

Thanks mrsedey, sticky baby dust to you too!

[Mrsedey]

Hey Sazy,
I am on here for support to! My husband has been in the military since he was 17 and has been exposed to many things that drop his sperm count!   Any who I am here to make friends for support....we just started TTC  since April 09 but we have been trying but have before that....and there was no luck so now we are actually trying harder by tracking temps and what not! But as of today it gets put n hold due to my Husband having surgery today...so many next month we will get lucky. But I hope you get lucky this month....Good Luck and LOBD!