Most RE's have a donor egg program. From what I have been through, I would highly suggest finding a donor egg program with a refund program. You can check into Attain IVF, and there is a place in Maryland that offers a wonderful shared risk program, called Shady Grove.
You have a wonderful chance of getting pregant using donor eggs! Good LUck!!!!
Our forum would be perfect for u. I have not personally done ivf or egg donor but several of the women in our group have and some are currently adopting eggs. Future Moms is the name of it. try to find it. i think these ladies can help u out. Good luck.