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1643514 tn?1314387784

feel so alone

i feel so alone this is my second round of clomid and still so worried as to if it will work or not anyone else goingt through this?
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1643514 tn?1314387784
thank you all for your great advice i hope everyone fets what they want!!!
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1643514 tn?1314387784
i do feel better that i am not as alone on this as i thought i was sometimes i just dont feel like a real woman like i need help to be real but then againim very happy that people have gone through what i am going through and have had miracles! i hope that your IVF worked for you keep me posted on that progress !!!
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1650439 tn?1301562628
you are certainly not alone!! i have been climbing this steep hill of infertility for 7 years now and i thought i would never ever get thru it. were still trying and just undergone our first ivf!!! i was in denial for a long time and thougth ivf was never going to be an option. your still in early days and you will get thru it...trust me!!! stay focused and strong!! you will have your down days but it makes you a bettter and stronger person. the only positive thing to come from my on going journey is that i have made some wonderful friends.
chin up x
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1643514 tn?1314387784
i will be going a year and 4 months so far and nl luck yet but i only started taking the clomid this is only my second month on it. i hope that it works out though fingers crossed and all !!!
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1640824 tn?1325888415
Hello i have been trying to conceive for a year and seven months with no luck. Doctor put me on 50mg cloimd for 6 months i had no luck with it now he wants us to go to a fertility doctor. I have a five year old so i know i can have kids. But everyone's body is different i hope it works out for you. Its always good knowing we are not alone. Keep me posted, good luck!!
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1643514 tn?1314387784
well i feel you there so i am happy that i am not the only one it makes it easier to know that we are not alone it gives me hope when people that have been through this have a good result at the end and thats what i hope for just trying to keep a good positive attitude

thank you for your support hope that your IUI will surprise you and work keep you in my prayers!
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You are not alone and I know exactly how you are feeling. I have no children and my husband and I have been trying for two years. I just did my 2nd IUI with clomid and I don't think it worked. I'm 16 dpo and I think af is getting ready to arrive. :0( I was really sad on Monday with my BFN and then today for some reason. I just feel so hopeless. I have a high FSH so I only have one  more attempt with IUI then it's IVF.

Like you, ALL of my friends are either pregnant or just had a baby. I have a baby shower this weekend with a friend who wasn't even trying to get pregnant. I feel like every time I log onto FB I see photos of my friends with their baby bump. I could not be happier for them but it really hurts. I also live by a park and see all the mothers playing with thier children in the park. I would do anything to join them. I know this is depressing but this has been a sad day for me also.

I hope you have luck with this round. It helps to know that we aren't alone and I always feel so much better when I vent a little. I know everyone on here can understand how I feel. They also give me the needed motivation to keep trying.

Good luck and thanks for the suppport. :0)
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1643514 tn?1314387784
is IVF painful? thats something that my dr. was talking about if this doesnt help we can do IVF. just got done taking my second cycle of clomid on 28 so about to start taking ovulation test to see if it helped i did get a posotive reading for my progesteran last time so i hope this works its just some days are hard to get through when you have everyone able to have kids and you cant it does get discouraging but i hope everything works out for you and your IVF!
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Hello dont feel discouraged! I am currently walking in your shoes. I have done clomid twice, and gonal f 4 times with no luck. I am currently on my first IVF cycle with gonal F and Menopur, im in my 2 week waiting period right now! Please know that you have to keep trying and fight the good fight. I am fighting it with you
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1643514 tn?1314387784
thank you for sharing that. makes me feel not so alone i have a niece and thats as close as it has ever gotten for me having a baby i hope everything works out for you with the IUI and or the IVF if thats what you choose.

i hope this round works i really feel sad cause all of my friends are pregnant or have a baby and me and my husband have been trying for over a year now
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489000 tn?1364302227
It took me 3 rounds of IUI with injectables to get my dd, so hang in there!  I am currenlty trying for number 2 and I am on my 3rd round again. If this round doesn't work, then it is onto IVF if we choose to do so.

I hope this round works for you!  There are some amazing women on here that have gone through and are going through so much.  Maybe they will respond and share their stories so you won't feel so alone. There are unforunately a lot of us with issues ttc.

Best of luck to you!

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