i'm so sorry, i am sending best wishes, crossing my fingers find a shooting star for your little one.
Im so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your baby in my thoughts and prayers!
I am so very sorry you went through this. I have been bleeding for weeks and I know how scary that is. I do know several ladies who wrote to me since I started bleeding and told me that they lost one of the twins but were able to have a healthy baby. I know that ZevasMom and shishka went through that. ZevasMom had a beautiful baby girl and shishka is due some time soon. It is not uncommon to miscarry one twin. Try to stay strong for the baby that is still growing.
I am very sorry for your loss. I have a good friend who went through exactly what you describe. She now has a beautiful baby boy.
I'm so very sorry.
I posted also on AGP.
Oh honey, I am so sorry. To answer your question about losing a twin...yes it is common in IVF to lose one and the other remains and continues to grow just perfectly. Try to relax and take it as easy as possible.
Amberlee. I am so sorry this happened. I also know of a few women that this happened to. They are still currently pregnant with a singleton. Be strong.. you can do this :)
i believe on the 21 plus pregnancy forum one woman with triplets lost one and the other 2 are healthy and should be born within the next month or so. I am so sorry for your loss.
thank you all for your support, it really makes me feel better!! i am so scared, as all of you, i want this so bad and cant imagine not going the next 7 and a half months without this miracle growing inside me!! i talk to them everyday, good morning, good night, hope your comfy in there. i just dont know what to do! the thought of loosing them crosses my mind EVERYDAY and every time i think about it, i sit and think of what would happen but now that it has, i didnt think it would be this hard. i am SO thankful that i still have one at least, there are so many that cant say that and i wish i could take the pain i know they feel away as much as i want this pain i feel to go away!! its so not fair and yet no one will ever understand why the ones that want and deserve this more then anything go through what they go through. i dont know why this has to be so hard for us. and my husbands tear covered face keeps playing over and over and that hurts even more, knowing that he was sitting there trying calm me down while trying to stay calm himself. im sorry for rambling, i needed to vent to people who understand. thank you all again its nice having people to support you when you dont have the strength to support yourself!!
my sister who did not have IVF went to her doc because she was bleeding for so long
they told her she was preggo but it had been twins and one was bleeding
I have a 14 year old nephew from that
Asking: I'm so sorry you have to go through this... it really just isn't fair. I just want you to know you will be in my thoughts and prayers especially during this time :)
Hugs and love :) Take it easy for a bit
Just got a chance to get on the computer today and read your news. My heart is so saddended for you and your DH.
Try your hardest to rest and think positive thoughts for your baby. I am really so sorry that you are going through this.
so sorry to hear that your going through this!!!! my heart aches for you! but the good news is that i have heard of lots of women and know women who have lost one and the other was a full term perfect baby! its very common! I can only imagine how terrifying it must be though! and i agree, seeing my dh tear up is a picture my mind will never forget! I'm praying for you, dh and your little one! sending you super sticky baby dust! that you WILL be holding that little beautiful baby in 8 months! : ) I wish that for everyone that ttc could be as easy and painless as it is for sooo many people, but i guess we're all stronger for going through this battle! which we will win in the end! your in my thoughts and prayers! keep us updated!!
I am extremely sorry for what you are going through...all I can say is please do not give up.
I did not undergo IVF, but I have been through your situation myself. I was 6 1/2 weeks pregnant with twins when I started bleeding and passing clots. I went to the hospital and was told that i was having a miscarriage. They wanted to do a d'n'c at the time to help finish the miscarriage. I refused the d'n'c and went home--one call to my own ob got me into another hospital where they did an u/s and found that I was still pregnant with one baby. The rest of my pregnancy was uneventful---I have a wonderful son now--he's 11 years old :)
So please do not give up hope, be strong and try to rest and relax as much as you can. My thoughts are with you and I am sending you tons of hugs and SSBD to help you along :)
I have not ben it what you are going through but i know that GOD is a healer HE said HE heals us once we ask HIm i will be praying for you that you will give birth to a healthy baby may the peacse of JESUS CHRIST be with you!!!
I am so sorry for what you are going through. I can't give any advice or share any experiences since I've never been through this, but I just wanted to let you know that my heart goes out to you and your DH and I'll be sure to keep you in my prayers. If the doctor saw the other baby and thinks everything looks good, then take comfort in that and have faith that everything will be OK. Take care.
My sister, cousin, and gf at work all were pg with twins and lost one, 2 were early 1st trimester and one was second. Tyler(24), Jared (20) and Alexis(2) are proof that they all carried to term....good luck, stay positive!!
i can't say that i know what you are going through cause i have not been in your shoes, although i have lost single babies in the past, i do know the pain of loss. my heart goes out to you and you are in my thoughts. i hope that all goes well with the other baby and just take it as easy as possible. and you will be holding your baby in just a few months. i know it seems like a eternity but it will go by quickly once it gets going, soon you will feel that little miracle moving around and using your insides as a jungle gym...lol
hugs and luv to you, your dh and that little bean
First - know that you and little one are in my prayers :o)
Second - your little bean is going to be fine - I know from first hand experience... I had the same EXACT thing happen to me... AND DD is turning 2 next month!
We did IVF - we were pregnant with twins... short story - I started bleeding, went to ER - heavy clots - scared to death! There was one little baby - HB and all... I was sooooo nervous - but in the end - I gave birth to a beautiful, healthy, baby girl!
If you need anything - message me - I have "been there, done that" and may be able to help with questions...
My thoughts and prayers are with you! I am sure everything will be just fine with your little one...