the "I am annoyed by this" thread

[lost_kitty]

I know this doesn't really belong in here, but I feel like I have to get this off my chest.

I'm a bit annoyed by TTC, why you ask? Well, there is 1st the fact that MEN can produce a child at any time, any day, but we WOMEN can only conceive 2 days a month, 2 DAYS, that are 28 days in a year, the rest of the time is bleeding, hoping, crossing fingers and the worst thing EVER, waiting.

Something else that annoys me a bit are my friends or the people closest around me who conceive, and conceive, and conceive, and GET WHAT THEY WANT, while everyone else is trying, trying and losing their hope.

And PLEASE, what is with all the charting? BBT, TTC, CM, HPT, OPK - people, this is TOO MUCH, when did conceive a miracle of life become work? Oh, not to forget the DH, BF, Baby Daddy - or whatever you wanna call him, it's like they don't seem to understand sometimes how important it is to some, or ALL of us to receive such a gift.

One more - for those of you out there who have DH, BF and whoever, with already at least one other face to see themselves in, it's like my BF doesn't understand with his two sons that I kinda sometimes feel left out.

It's really good to get it out, anyone feels the same? I mean come on, let it out, grab a tissue. :)

[nickyc561]

oh at last, a place to vent ... i too feel like a useless piece of barron ****.
"if its meant to be it will be or its proberly not your time" **** that comes out of my mums mouth PISSES ME OFF its ok for her, she had kids. all i want is 1! i am 36 and i am getting old!

so called friends i work with seem to get preg at a drop of a hat. 4 are preg at the mo, ITS NOT PISSING FAIR. they didnt tell me but eveyone else knew. i eventally was told as it was too hard to hide. pathetic.
" you need to relax more" ****! I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO CONCIEVE FOR 10 YEARS. ONLT TO get PREG IN NOVEMBER and MISCARRY.  not a word of support came from their lips. thety just dont care .  i hate this, i am fed up with the constant rubbish that i have to deal with. and to top it off I SEE BABIES AND PREG WOMAN AT WORK EVERYDAY. I  work as a nurse on a maternity ward.

[Nat256]

And GiGiGiGi I do the same thing as you. I tell everyone who asks if we are trying to have children that I hate children that I don't want to be burdened by little germ infested monsters. And then I turn right around and I avoid going certain places because I know there are going to be children everywhere and I just get so jealous, especially when I see so many people who really shouldn't have children at all seeing as how they so obviously don't want them. I've told my immediate family we're ttc but that's it.

[Nat256]

I just wanted to add that I hate clomid. And guess the freak what is the only medicine that will make me ovulate. GOD I HATE CLOMID! It makes me so sick. It makes my heart beat fast, I sweat, I have hot flashes and am nauseated all of the time and when I get sick I can't eat and then I can't sleep. And then I get jokes about how Witchy I am all of the time. And then I really, really want to just run somebody over with my car, usually my well meaning mother who suggests that I should take some vitamins or something. And if I hear how "hormonal" I am one more time somebody is going to get their a _ _ kicked. Seriously.

[Nat256]

Thanks for bringing this back out... I haven't seen it before and it just made me feel a heck of a LOT better. My husband says he's understand but he's not the one ready to throw up from taking the fertility meds. and geting sick. My sister-in-law says she understands but she has two kids of her own and I'm faced with the prospect of childlessness and I look like a drug addict because my left arm has so many marks from being stuck with a needle to take blood that I'm ready to scream. Lost_kitty I feel your pain. Seriously. Thanks girl for just letting it out and inviting others to do the same. If this thread doesn't belong here then I don't know what does!

[wanabb]

just thought i should bring this back out... it always makes me feel better

[lost_kitty]

just recently someone said to me: "why dont you take the boys of your boyfriend as your own kids?"

well, 1st off, they rnt living with us, so i get to see them as visiting, 2nd off, i already treat them like they r mine, BUT, it is SO not the same, id like to be pregnant and experience what all the others experience, the pain, the hunger, the kicks, yes even being nausiated, y do i have to take his kids for my own and just get rid of my dream to be a mommy?

i think its much esier for guys to "adopt" someone elses child then for gals, cuz they dont experience the beauty of growing a child inside...

babydust to all of you and this month espacially to me :)