I am 35 years old and was diagnosed with IBS when I was 22. In the last few years it seems to have gotten worse even though I eat better. My problem: I feel like I can't get "it" all out. I need to use the rest room, i go, but when I get up from the toilet I feel like I need to go again. I have to wear pads all the time because some will come out no matter what I do. I can wipe a million times..the paper will always have "it" on it. I use baby wipes to try to keep clean but it doesnt help. I can't even use tampons without it causing fecal matter to come out. My poor husband thinks I don't want to make love to him, but the truth is, I am scared "it" will come out when we have sex. I have very little control. Someone please help...