Good. Yeah, some malaria type guy... I think insect-borne disease specialists, which because I am dim-witted in my older age, I can't think of the exact name of those docs. Hope things improve for you, very worrisome about that bug bite.
Thank you so much for responding; I will talk with my husband on this. I think you are right it is time for a specialist. Yesterday and today I am having swelling in my face; especially around my eyes and they are painful. My cheeks are both a bit swollen and red. Not sure if this is more symptoms or a reaction to the herbal things that I have started taking; but I am stopping them to be safe. Thanks again I appreciate it.
I've read both your posts. I have two suggestions.
There is a good chance that if your husband is using latex condoms, this can create your symptoms. If so, then once he switches and you're left with waiting for your rash to go away, you can get a "diaper rash" ointment or cream from the baby department in the drugstore, and put it on the rash. You need to also eat plenty of protein, drink some extra water, and take hot baths every day for a week. And every time you have sex with your husband, use KY jelly with nothing else in it, to lubricate the area.
It is also possible you have a sexually transmitted disease, some are quite mild and can produce some of your symptoms, and can be easily treated. So, you should go to your county health department clinic, and get tested for ALL of the STDs. If you come up positive on one, then of course your husband needs to be tested and treated, also. In the U.S., 25 million people have those types of diseases, so it's really not particularly ominous, and neither you nor your husband should feel badly about the situation. These things happen, we're only human.
I don't know who this gynecologist or physician is that you're seeing, but I find it very troublesome that you have this horrible and strange rash going on, not to mention all the other symptoms, and yet they haven't sent you to a specialist who knows about possibly a systemic deal spreading from from that bug bite, that may have made you a whole lot sicker than just the local head and lymph node problems, and THAT needs to be looked into. Your immune system could be failing, and any and all bacteria can just waltz right in and ruin your health, with of course dark, damp places will be their first entry point.