You may be hypersensitive to caffeine.
From your description, you may be sensitive to caffeine above a certain level as found in the "energy drinks". Your best bet is to stay away from such drinks or any caffeine in pill or powder form as they may be harmful to your health. It sounds like you can get by with the lower caffeine found in the carbonated drinks or coffee you mentioned, but for best health, sodas should be avoided because of sugar content.