Help!!! plz

[emm95]

Hi im a 16 yr old girl. I met this seriously hot guy at work in January and i thought that he was 20 or 21 tops ok... We started talking a few times when we were both on at night coz he works during the day and i work during the night. So then i found out he was actually 27 nearly 28 !!!! omg anyways.... we were texting eachother constantly and i found out that he has a gf but what i didnt know is that they have been going out for 9 yrs and r engaged!!!!! =( so we decided to meet up and i had no idea what was going to happen b/c ive never kissed a guy or had a bf before. So we were in his ute and we kissed and kissed some more etc... but we didnt do anything else ok. So after that i was txting him and asked him if we were friends with benefit and he said yes.

But work found out about 'us' but nothing came of it. So this weekend on Saturday we might be meeting up again.. Like i really want to see him and everything but I know that its wrong but i do like him though. I really need some advice because I have no idea what to do. And I dont want to go too far with him, if you know what i mean

Please Help

[mitzee88]

Good to here!! ..

[emm95]

Thank you everyone for their advice, i really appreciate it. And i am 16 even though it says on my profile 18... coz i wasnt sure if u had to be over 18 to join this website. Dont worry I wont see him again, ive even deleted his number from my fone. Thanx again

[Londres70]

Are you 16 or 18?  He is 27 or 28?  Your situation spells disaster to me.  Do not let this man take advantage of you.  Please have respect for yourself.  If he really is TRUELY interested, tell him to give you a call AFTER he is single and you are 18.  Plus, if you are 16 this situation could have legal consequences for this man.    

[Carly1306]

and another one bites the dust.....

[mitzee88]

Why duz it say ur 18 on ur profile and ur 16??

[Carly1306]

I wouldn't go to meet him. For a start he's in a long term relationship and it is extremely wrong what he is doing, and you if you want to get involved. For your own sake I would not take this any further. Think how you would feel if you were his gf and found out about something like this...you would be totally gutted. Maybe his relationship with his gf isn't what it used to be, but that is their problem and something that he should sort out and not get involved with anyone else in the meantime. He is only making the situation worse by doing this with you, and it's not fair on his gf or you for that matter that he is. You now knowing about his gf, so stay away and keep it to strictly friends and nothing more.
If he's not happy with his relationship with his gf, then he should end it....and if he likes you as much as you like him then he will let you know about it i'm sure.

[mitzee88]

Hi i think you should not meet him.. He has a fianc'ee at home and you now know that! think of it if you wer her and found out? You and him have totally wrecked 9 year.. If hes worth it then go ahead but he should tell his gf if hes not happy! Your only 16 and a full life ahead of you and sum 27 year old comes along and you jump to the chance of attention for the sake of him using you! Hope i havnt affended you just the truth..