I don't know why

[Nickie28]

I lost my baby February 28 2014 yea yesterday and I don't know why. Thursday February 27 I started craming but I had just went to the Ob 2 days before they everything was fine. The paper they gave me talked about cramping so I didn't worry. Friday 2am I started bleeding so I rushed to the ER they checked me took blood urine and even gave me an ultrasound during the ultra sound the baby was kicking flipping sucking it thumb they told me the baby is OK but I need to go to the Ob when they open so he can see where the blood is coming from. The doc told me the blood is fresh doesn't look like its coming from the baby just saying I might have an infection but all my test came back good. I got home from the ER at 5am got 3 hours of sleep woke up to call the Ob and my water broke but this being my first pregnancy I didn't know it was my water braking so I went yo the ob they knew my water broke I sat in the waiting room 30 min before being seen by time the doc got to me he said I was dialated 5 cm and the baby was on its way I was have a miscarriage and he didn't know why I was in shock and I could do nothing but look at him....w
How could they not see this when I dent at 2 am how did my baby die so fast and no one could tell me why????... I'm lost

[Rina_Wooly]

We lost our 2nd son on 19/12/13. Gave birth to him at 18 and a half weeks gestation.I'm 24. Our son was diagnosed with a rare trisomy.I'm sorry for your loss,it's hard and I hope you get answers soon! X

[Nickie28]

Thank you and yes I have day I can talk about him and not cry but day I just brake down I have not when to bed before 2 am since I'm 23 and this is my first child and maybe my last I don't think I'll make it threw another one with out stressing and running to the er I would have to live at the hospital my life will never be the same

[divanay]

I'm very sorry for your loss. I too was in the same position last July. I was 19 weeks also. I had a ob appt. a few days before I miscarried. I was at work all day. I didn't realize my water was leaking all day. When I got home I felt like I had to make a bowel movement, not knowing that I was pushing my baby downward. Immediatley went to the ER. Worst day of my life. The funeral for the baby wasn't easy either. I still think of my baby boy everyday. Grieving has no time limit. Take all the time you need. If you wanna vent i'm hear to listen.

[Nickie28]

Yes I was lost when I went to the ER and they sent me home and 3 hours later I'm losing g my child how could they not see it and call it a spontaneous abortion tried to say I had an infection but my test where good

[skyler411]

19wks is far into it! I've learned that sometimes they tell you  everythings ok when in fact  its not!  I hate ppl who say everything happens for a reason..some times thiers is no good reason! I'm definitely on here looking for support..from other moms who have been threw it.. I feel I have no one who understand s my pain..pls k.I.t.  and feel free to contact me anytime you need to vent!..also I found a f.b. page that is good...called silent grief! Its made me realize i'm not alone and thiers lots of ppl going threw child loss  for one reason or another..xxx

[Nickie28]

Sorry about the misspelling but its hard to type and review with eyes full of tears

[Nickie28]

I was 19 week on yesterday I'm 23 years old

[skyler411]

Nicki,
i'm so very sorry for your loss! If you don't mind me asking how far along were u ? Your story is a lot like mine! I lost my baby girl @38wks. She would have been turning 6months ..now and its killing me because I miss her so much! Pls feel free to message me anytime. . ((Huggs.))).