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HIV Scare, Marriage is at stake

Hi all, male

few days back i went to one massage parlor. All good when i went. after everything was fine, i asked her for happy ending. she agreed.

I was already nude. She took some oil and started applying on my dickhead/Urethra and started stroking. I asked her if she can remove her dress and she removed. It lasted for 5 minutes. in all those 5 minutes, either i was inserting my finger in to her vagina or she was doing that. in fact she was rubbing her vagina very aggressively, deeply and with her vaginal fluids still in her hand, she used to take the oil apply on my penis head and urethra and stroke it. I had a very very fresh cut in my finger, in fact it happened when she started (i hit my thumb finger in to cot) and started bleeding. My stupid without giving any second thought, i started inserting the same finger even with very very fresh cut and bleeding in to her vagina. I think i did like that for atleast one minute.

Later i came and washed my penis.

three things involved here. please also consider this while answering.

a) she might have had her menstrual blood that directly came in contact with my bleeding wound when i inserted.
b) my wound (honestly believe me) happened during the handjob and i saw it bleeding and by looking in to that only i inserted my finger in to her. did not stroke but kept it for a minute so i would have had prolonged exposure to blood.
c) my wound was size of "o". 2 mm length, 2 mm deep and fresh bleeding. do u think this big wound allow enough virus to reach to blood stream considering the depth and size.

i need little scientific explanation too.

want to know if i am home free and get ready for marriage. I am getting married on 22nd of Feb,
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Hi sir.. Thanks.. Do you recommend testing. Can I start to have unprotected sex with my wife
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Hello

I really don't think you should worry about this mechanism of possible transfer of HIV. I think you will be fine.

There is no firm indication that this lady is in fact HIV positive in the first place. People do draw conclusions from the fact that someone may be a sex worker but the majority of female sex workers are not HIV positive and so are not able to pass HIV on - cuts or no cuts.

In any event you have described a small cut that was actively bleeding. Active bleeding is good in this scenario because blood from you is emerging and washing other items or infection out of the area.

Even if you had had unprotected vaginal sex with her and she had been HIV positive the risk of acquisition for you is less than 1 in 1000.

I understand that you are fearful about this but I really can't see that you were even remotely at risk.

best wishes, Sean
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Hi Sir can u pls reply sir
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Continuation of the same question which needs ansers.

1. She applied her immediate vaginal secretion without even giving a break for a second to my penis head with oil. Please know that time difference was in seconds - May be one or two seconds thats it. I saw her hand dripping with vaginal fluids.
2. I had a fresh fresh cut which was bleeding and i inserted my finger. May be atleast half inch in to her vagina. I had a cut of approximately 1 cm which was little deeper.
3. she had any cuts which were fresh/bleeding and if her blood comes in contact with my penis head with oil used for lubrication, what are the risks?
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