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scared of massage

I recently went a massage parlor and recieved a happy ending. I believe it was by hand only , possible oral. Total time less than 2 min. She was fully clothed the entire time. This happened after a 30 min massage. I didnt feel any roughness to her hands during the massage but never looked at them. I did have a small outbreak of genital herpes at the time. I have talked to a couple of aids hotlines and have searched the forums up and down. Most say it was a zero risk exposure to contracting hiv. Some say with the open herpes there could be a possibility. Some even say only inside penetration viginal, anal or needle exposure. What are the possilities of contracting hiv through this act. There was no vaginal or anal penetration. Im a wreck.
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I didnt know there were massage parlors. Ill make sure to keep my hubby out of those.... go to the dr. im pretty sure its nothing if u didny have vaginal or anal interaction. its prob all in ur head bc ur scared
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5 days later my groin lymph nodes are bothering me. Is this from stress or a different std? I thank you for your reply.  But I cannot get this off my mind and im concernd I caught something else. What else could I have gotten?  And your confident this would not be hiv.
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Hello,
Receiving a hand job, or even oral sex would have not posed any risk of HIV infection to you, regardless of the circumstances and the status of the other person.  Therefore no need to worry and no need to get tested for HIV.
Best wishes,
Dr José
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Anyone, looking for some advise

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