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HIV OR STDs RISKS
Hi Drs,
Last week I had two sexual encounters with two girls while I was travelling to Mexico.
With the first one I had deep mouth kissing, I didn’t notice any blood in her mouth or mine. I fingered her, but either didn’t notice any cuts in my fingers. She gave me oral but I was using a condom which didn’t break. During the oral she sucked my balls. After that I changed the condom for a new one and penetrated her in her vagina. The sex lasted too long so I changed the condom three times. Neither of the condoms broke. At the end I took off the condom and masturbated myself.
The next day I had sex with a different woman. I kissed her on the lips for 2 seconds. I didn’t finger her as I noticed a not so pleasant smell coming from her vagina. She gave me oral wearing a condom and sucked my balls. I felt that she bit me during the oral, but I didn’t see any damage on the condom. After the oral I changed the condom and put on a new one to have vaginal sex. Throughout the vaginal sex I changed the condom twice. Neither of the condoms broke. At the end I also took off the condom and the girl masturbated me. Also to both girls I kissed their bodies (but I didn’t give them oral) sucked their breasts and rubbed my penis against their breasts and buttchicks.
My questions
1.Do you think I'm at risk of have contracted HIV or any STD?
2.Do you think that the bad smell of the second girl was related to any STD, and that I could have contracted it?
3.Would you recommend me getting tested for HIV or for any other STD?
4.If you think I should get tested for anything, when should I do it?
5.I was thinking that maybe I should take a Home Access HIV test, is this test good? Does it matter that it is only for HIV-1? Does it require the same window period?
6.Were there any risks in masturbating myself after I'd fingered the girl, rubbing my penis against their breasts and buttchicks, kissing their bodies and sucking their breasts, or because they sucked my balls?
Thank you!
Last week I had two sexual encounters with two girls while I was travelling to Mexico.
With the first one I had deep mouth kissing, I didn’t notice any blood in her mouth or mine. I fingered her, but either didn’t notice any cuts in my fingers. She gave me oral but I was using a condom which didn’t break. During the oral she sucked my balls. After that I changed the condom for a new one and penetrated her in her vagina. The sex lasted too long so I changed the condom three times. Neither of the condoms broke. At the end I took off the condom and masturbated myself.
The next day I had sex with a different woman. I kissed her on the lips for 2 seconds. I didn’t finger her as I noticed a not so pleasant smell coming from her vagina. She gave me oral wearing a condom and sucked my balls. I felt that she bit me during the oral, but I didn’t see any damage on the condom. After the oral I changed the condom and put on a new one to have vaginal sex. Throughout the vaginal sex I changed the condom twice. Neither of the condoms broke. At the end I also took off the condom and the girl masturbated me. Also to both girls I kissed their bodies (but I didn’t give them oral) sucked their breasts and rubbed my penis against their breasts and buttchicks.
My questions
1.Do you think I'm at risk of have contracted HIV or any STD?
2.Do you think that the bad smell of the second girl was related to any STD, and that I could have contracted it?
3.Would you recommend me getting tested for HIV or for any other STD?
4.If you think I should get tested for anything, when should I do it?
5.I was thinking that maybe I should take a Home Access HIV test, is this test good? Does it matter that it is only for HIV-1? Does it require the same window period?
6.Were there any risks in masturbating myself after I'd fingered the girl, rubbing my penis against their breasts and buttchicks, kissing their bodies and sucking their breasts, or because they sucked my balls?
Thank you!
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Welcome to the Forum. None of the exposures you describe put you at risk for and STD, including HIV. STDs are not transmitted by kissing, by masturbation (you of them or them of you), kissing your body , including your scrum or through condom protected sex of any kind. Your condoms stayed intact - you were protected.
In answer to your specific questions:
1. No, non of the activities you describe place you at risk for HIV or other STDs in the unlikely circumstance that either of your partners were infected.
2. No, the are no STDs specifically associated with bad odors. Bacterial vaginosis, which is not an STD and occurs in women without a male counterpart, is a common cause of s "fishy" vaginal odor for some women.
3. There is no medical reason for you to seek testing. If you need to do so for your peace of mind, do so but only if you promise yourself to believe the results.
4. See above. It would be too early for an HIV test which would be most accurate at about 8 weeks but, as I said, I see no need for testing.
5. The Home Access tests are fine but typically the counseling provided is not as good as what is provided when testing is done in person. You would be better off going to your local health department where the testing is accurate, confidential and affordable.
6. No. masturbation including mutual masturbation in which partners get each other’s genital secretions on one another does not put you at risk.
I hope these comments are helpful. Take care. EWH
In answer to your specific questions:
1. No, non of the activities you describe place you at risk for HIV or other STDs in the unlikely circumstance that either of your partners were infected.
2. No, the are no STDs specifically associated with bad odors. Bacterial vaginosis, which is not an STD and occurs in women without a male counterpart, is a common cause of s "fishy" vaginal odor for some women.
3. There is no medical reason for you to seek testing. If you need to do so for your peace of mind, do so but only if you promise yourself to believe the results.
4. See above. It would be too early for an HIV test which would be most accurate at about 8 weeks but, as I said, I see no need for testing.
5. The Home Access tests are fine but typically the counseling provided is not as good as what is provided when testing is done in person. You would be better off going to your local health department where the testing is accurate, confidential and affordable.
6. No. masturbation including mutual masturbation in which partners get each other’s genital secretions on one another does not put you at risk.
I hope these comments are helpful. Take care. EWH
Dear Dr.
Thank you very much for your comment. I will follow your advice. You have been very helpful and I appreciate it.
Best regards,
Thank you very much for your comment. I will follow your advice. You have been very helpful and I appreciate it.
Best regards,
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