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Dear doctors：
Last Saturday night (2012.05.05), I called a masseuse (HIV and STDs status unknown) for my services, WE HAD NO REAL SEXUAL ACTIVITIES SUCH AS VAGINAL, ANAL OR ORAL SEX. We had tongue kissing (not very intense, not long), she nibbled my tongue (didn't break my tongue). I should have NO ORAL ULCERS, NO WOUND in my mouth, and i think she is also (I’m not sure). I licked her nipples (SEEMS NO NIPPLE DISCHARGE), she also licked my nipples (NO WOUND) and my right ear. Her hand touched my penis and my scrotums. I fingered into her vagina, because of her stop, I quickly put my finger out, and my RIGHT HAND may have some her vaginal fluid. After a few seconds (maybe longer), I touched my penis (penis head and scrotums? i can't remember exactly) with my RIGHT HAND. Finally, she was lying on me, my penis caught in the lower abdomen of two people (without condom), we were maintaining this position until the completion of ejaculation. (In my memory, her hands did not touch my penis in the ejaculation process, and I didn't touch her vagina too. And also my penis didn't her vagina.)
2 days later, I and my girlfriend (she is healthy) had tongue kissing, and she gave me masturbation, (both with undershorts, and I didn't give her masturbation, just touched/licked her breasts/nipples). And I’m worry about her health now.
5 days later, i saw the dermatologist, I show him the small red bump on my penis head and my body, and he said that maybe the eczema, and he gave me DEXAMETHASONE ACETATE OINTMENT and Aluminum BoDe loose cha agent.
Please tell me how to do; I have some questions to ask you:
1. Did I put myself at risk of contracting HIV or STDs (HSV, syphilis and HPV/warts or others)? The risk is LOW / MEDIUM / HIGH or ZERO?
2. Did I have High-risk sexual behavior?
3. Should I need a HIV TEST or STDs TEST?
4. Does my girlfriend have not the risk of infection? IS SHE OK / SAFE?
5. Can I have sex with my girlfriend without protection?
Thank you very much!
Last Saturday night (2012.05.05), I called a masseuse (HIV and STDs status unknown) for my services, WE HAD NO REAL SEXUAL ACTIVITIES SUCH AS VAGINAL, ANAL OR ORAL SEX. We had tongue kissing (not very intense, not long), she nibbled my tongue (didn't break my tongue). I should have NO ORAL ULCERS, NO WOUND in my mouth, and i think she is also (I’m not sure). I licked her nipples (SEEMS NO NIPPLE DISCHARGE), she also licked my nipples (NO WOUND) and my right ear. Her hand touched my penis and my scrotums. I fingered into her vagina, because of her stop, I quickly put my finger out, and my RIGHT HAND may have some her vaginal fluid. After a few seconds (maybe longer), I touched my penis (penis head and scrotums? i can't remember exactly) with my RIGHT HAND. Finally, she was lying on me, my penis caught in the lower abdomen of two people (without condom), we were maintaining this position until the completion of ejaculation. (In my memory, her hands did not touch my penis in the ejaculation process, and I didn't touch her vagina too. And also my penis didn't her vagina.)
2 days later, I and my girlfriend (she is healthy) had tongue kissing, and she gave me masturbation, (both with undershorts, and I didn't give her masturbation, just touched/licked her breasts/nipples). And I’m worry about her health now.
5 days later, i saw the dermatologist, I show him the small red bump on my penis head and my body, and he said that maybe the eczema, and he gave me DEXAMETHASONE ACETATE OINTMENT and Aluminum BoDe loose cha agent.
Please tell me how to do; I have some questions to ask you:
1. Did I put myself at risk of contracting HIV or STDs (HSV, syphilis and HPV/warts or others)? The risk is LOW / MEDIUM / HIGH or ZERO?
2. Did I have High-risk sexual behavior?
3. Should I need a HIV TEST or STDs TEST?
4. Does my girlfriend have not the risk of infection? IS SHE OK / SAFE?
5. Can I have sex with my girlfriend without protection?
Thank you very much!
Thank you very much. You give me more peace of my mind. Sorry for the same question. Because Doubt can not immediately eliminate. But i feel better now. If i still have other questions, i'll consult you. Thanks again for your work.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
What exactly did you not understand in "You are abusing your MedHelp privileges by repeatedly asking the same questions on several forums. If you continue, this entire thread will be deleted." I have deleted yet another question that already was answered. Once more and the thread will be gone.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
No matter how scared you are, you may not keep asking the same question. The answers will never change.
The events you describe were zero risk. Kissing and saliva never transmit HIV or other STDs. You can safely have sex with your girlfriend without protection.
You are abusing your MedHelp privileges by repeatedly asking the same questions on several forums. If you continue, this entire thread will be deleted.
The events you describe were zero risk. Kissing and saliva never transmit HIV or other STDs. You can safely have sex with your girlfriend without protection.
You are abusing your MedHelp privileges by repeatedly asking the same questions on several forums. If you continue, this entire thread will be deleted.
Thanks a lot for your replies.
Sorry for my English, because i'm not from a english-speaking country, so maybe have some comprehension difficulties. And I Get Really Anxious, so i want to make sure something and there are some updates below (Thanks again for your patience):
(THAT WAS MY ONLY SEXUAL ENCOUNTER without my girlfriend. THAT WAS AN ACCIDENT. All in all, my girlfriend is my partner exclusive. ).
3 days after that encounter (2012.05.09), I met the masseuse, I asked her if she has oral ulcers, bleeding gums, sexually transmitted diseases, AIDS or other infectious diseases, she said she is healthy, she did not have mouth ulcers, there is no wound, nor did these diseases. And she said she did medical examination last month (she promised she said is true), I don't know whether I should believe her, because I found that sometimes she may lie.
My current situation is, I am really worried and scared. I started to feel the itch of my thighs, arms, face and back (sometimes genital and anus), and I had a primary color small red bump on my penis head, no obvious pain on my neck lymph nodes (in fact, before this contact with the masseuse, my throat seems to be some inflammation) and a slight cough. Are these all my psychological effect? I saw some websites said the spring and summer is the season of rash. (BTW. I have neurodermatitis )
Yesterday (2012.05.10), i saw the dermatologist / Venereal doctor, I told him I've tongue kissing and penis touching with a masseuse and I showed him the small red bump on my penis head and on my body , and he said that maybe the ECZEMA, and he gave me DEXAMETHASONE ACETATE OINTMENT and Aluminum BoDe loose cha agent. Are these two drugs useful? He didn't ask me to do the STDs test, Is he right ?
And I just want to confirm something in my case:
1. The whole sexual encounter is ZERO risk （HIV and STDs） ?
1. It is completely impossible to HIV-infected and STDs-infected? Is it absolutely no need to do the HIV adn STDs test? DO NOT necessary to worry about it completely?
2. Did i and the masseuse have body fluid exchange ?
3. In my case, STDs can be transmitted by kissing (saliva) ? What about the risk? How much chance of transmission STDs by saliva, by skin-skin contact and by body fluids?
4. Can we consider it was a normal sexual behavior?
5. My girlfriend is OK, although we had skin to skin contact and i ejaculated in her hand ?
6. I can have sex with my girlfriend without protection?
Sorry for repeat questions, because I'm very scared. I need really very much your help and clear answers.
Looking forward to your replies and thank you very much in advance.
Sorry for my English, because i'm not from a english-speaking country, so maybe have some comprehension difficulties. And I Get Really Anxious, so i want to make sure something and there are some updates below (Thanks again for your patience):
(THAT WAS MY ONLY SEXUAL ENCOUNTER without my girlfriend. THAT WAS AN ACCIDENT. All in all, my girlfriend is my partner exclusive. ).
3 days after that encounter (2012.05.09), I met the masseuse, I asked her if she has oral ulcers, bleeding gums, sexually transmitted diseases, AIDS or other infectious diseases, she said she is healthy, she did not have mouth ulcers, there is no wound, nor did these diseases. And she said she did medical examination last month (she promised she said is true), I don't know whether I should believe her, because I found that sometimes she may lie.
My current situation is, I am really worried and scared. I started to feel the itch of my thighs, arms, face and back (sometimes genital and anus), and I had a primary color small red bump on my penis head, no obvious pain on my neck lymph nodes (in fact, before this contact with the masseuse, my throat seems to be some inflammation) and a slight cough. Are these all my psychological effect? I saw some websites said the spring and summer is the season of rash. (BTW. I have neurodermatitis )
Yesterday (2012.05.10), i saw the dermatologist / Venereal doctor, I told him I've tongue kissing and penis touching with a masseuse and I showed him the small red bump on my penis head and on my body , and he said that maybe the ECZEMA, and he gave me DEXAMETHASONE ACETATE OINTMENT and Aluminum BoDe loose cha agent. Are these two drugs useful? He didn't ask me to do the STDs test, Is he right ?
And I just want to confirm something in my case:
1. The whole sexual encounter is ZERO risk （HIV and STDs） ?
1. It is completely impossible to HIV-infected and STDs-infected? Is it absolutely no need to do the HIV adn STDs test? DO NOT necessary to worry about it completely?
2. Did i and the masseuse have body fluid exchange ?
3. In my case, STDs can be transmitted by kissing (saliva) ? What about the risk? How much chance of transmission STDs by saliva, by skin-skin contact and by body fluids?
4. Can we consider it was a normal sexual behavior?
5. My girlfriend is OK, although we had skin to skin contact and i ejaculated in her hand ?
6. I can have sex with my girlfriend without protection?
Sorry for repeat questions, because I'm very scared. I need really very much your help and clear answers.
Looking forward to your replies and thank you very much in advance.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Welcome to the forum and thanks for your question. However, you really didn't need to ask the same question as on the HIV international forum. Their advice and opinions never differ from ours, and I agree with the replies you had from Dr. Gonzalez-Garcia.
1,2) These were zero risk As Dr. G-G said, there is no HIV risk if there is no penile pentration into a partner's vagina, anus or (rarely) mouth.
3) If this is your only potential risk, there is no need for testing for HIV or any STD.
4,5) Similar to no. 3: from the exposure described, you could not have caught any STD that you could transmit to your girlfriend. If you and she have been having unprotected sex, you can safely continue to do so.
All non-monogamous sexually active persons should have routine HIV/STD testing from time to time, like once a year, even if there were no known episodes of unsafe sex. So if you haven't been tested recently, this might be a good time, while it's on your mind. But not because of the massage parlor events you have described.
Regards-- HHH, MD
1,2) These were zero risk As Dr. G-G said, there is no HIV risk if there is no penile pentration into a partner's vagina, anus or (rarely) mouth.
3) If this is your only potential risk, there is no need for testing for HIV or any STD.
4,5) Similar to no. 3: from the exposure described, you could not have caught any STD that you could transmit to your girlfriend. If you and she have been having unprotected sex, you can safely continue to do so.
All non-monogamous sexually active persons should have routine HIV/STD testing from time to time, like once a year, even if there were no known episodes of unsafe sex. So if you haven't been tested recently, this might be a good time, while it's on your mind. But not because of the massage parlor events you have described.
Regards-- HHH, MD
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