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precum on anus

Met a guy last night. He rubbed his penis on my anus with alot of precum. No penetration. Am i at risk of getting hiv?
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This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk therefore  testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis. Only the head needs to be covered, so if that happened it is  protected and there is zero risk
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis. Only the head needs to be covered, so if that happened it is protected and there is zero risk.
3. sharing hollow needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. This HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk. Because of all the research statistics, doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either.
If you didn't have one of the 3 then you are just worrying about your own hiv theory - which is unrealistic for you to think that can become reality - so you should move on back to your happy life instead.
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but the precum is very close to the hole. does it consider a risk?
Which of the 3 do you feel was your risk? If none, then you are just worrying about your own science fiction theory which is unrealistic to think that can become reality.
penetration means the penis need to be INSIDE the anal? But his penis really touched my hole very close like almost went in. Really no risk? pls help
hiv prevention is straightforward if you reread about the 3, Perhaps you should google the meaning of penetration since it is key to understanding why I wrote no risk so many times.
However for the points that I listed you have copied them and put a question mark at the end of the sentence. Perhaps you should talk to a therapist or your doc  to try to accept the science because I will not repeat this process.
I understand. However, the penis almost went in. Like i can slightly feel the force (with precum). Do I need to test? I really need a profession suggestion. Pls. It worries me for a few weeks already :(
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