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Please help assess those encounters I had, Thanks!

From May till now, I have had 8 casual encounters, all of those guys I hooked up with were from Craigslist, they all claimed DDF and HIV neg., but you never know.
So I am looking forward hearing the assessment from you guys to see if I am risky and having a big HIV concern.
(Sorry but my sexually speaking, which may help better I guess.)

1: Mutual masturbation; Unprotected oral (I performed on him, deep throat and tasted his pre-cum.);
2: Deep kissing; Mutual unprotected oral (I tasted his pre-cum.);
3: Protected anal; (I was the top and I checked the condom after I came, it was not leaking, so I assume it was all good.) I was drunk at that night but I could still clearly remember he was wearing a condom when he got his turn to top, I turned my head away, felt he was holding his dick against my anus, it was my 1st time being a bot, so he could NEVER put it in, let alone penetration, just holding against my anus, which I am positively sure. But now I wonder if he took it off without my knowledge?! or maybe I am just too worried and paranoid.
4: Unprotected oral on me, but when he was performing the handjob, his ring hurt my balanus/glan area, it hurt and I was not sure if it was bleeding or not, after that, I still let him suck on it which was so stupid, maybe his precum touched on that possible fresh cut. (I am very very worried about this one.)
5: Unprotected oral; Deep kissing;
6: Handjob; (He fingered my anus, maybe his precum ever touched on my haemorrhoids.)
7: Deep kissing; (I had a fresh ulcer on my lower lip, we kissed very intense, I don't know if it was open up again or bleeding and he seemed just brushed his teeth.)
8: Protected oral (Deep Throat); Handjobs;

Thanks for helping your neighbour!
(I am from Canada btw..)
I am really worried about if I need HIV test based on those encounters.
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You do not need to test for HIV.
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Thanks so much!

So I guess I don't need a HIV test then.
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Nothing to add to what I've already stated and there been I would have advised you.
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Thanks Teak! I really need a peace of mind, I've been struggling with anxiety in the past 10 days, always wake up at 4am and never be able to sleep again.

Would you mind going over all of those encounters I've had so far?
I really need to know if I am ok or not.
Especially the 3rd (if he was not wearing condom, just holding against my anus, maybe pre-cum involved, very risky?) and 4th encounter (he sucked on my open cut.)

Thanks a lot, really!
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Not an HIV concern. Saliva is not infectious and contains over a dozen different enzymes that inhibits HIV transmission.
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Thanks for your quick reply!

Even of no risk if he sucked on my "possible" fresh cut? And deep kiss if I have a open ulcer in my mouth?

I am very worried.

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