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A stupid a mistake.

This is the second time in two years ive posted here, and yet again im worrying, but this time i fear i was more risky.

So first, i want to say im not proud of what ive done and its not the easiest thing to have to post it here.

So, i got into a heterosexual three way sex situation with another man and woman, both of whom i don't know their status.
Both of these people are into an openly sexual lifestyle and a presume they have a lot of partners.

I participated in safe sex with condom, the condom was a little small, but im still not so worried about this.

before it happened, me and the other guy both brushed our teeth. He ejaculated into her both and she also gave me oral intermittently before that happened. After ten minutes or so i then kissed her deeply and gave her orla sex for five minutes or so.

What im worried about is the hiv tranmission chance from both oral sex with the girl and possible second hand semen from the other man entering my mouth or coming into contact with my unprotected penis via her mouth.

this was about one month ago.

Since then ive had light sweats and chills. at the moment the lymph nodes under my jaw are slighly swollen, i know they are because i have one that is always swollen that i play with and ive noticed others that have come, the one im worried of is down the right side of my neck. but im skinny and its easy to get to those usually hidden parts.

One thing i am suspicious of is the cramy white stuff at the back of my throat that stinks and the white balls its producing that keep coming out of my mouth. This is coinciding with a slight sore throat, which , im guessing is linked to the lymph node swelling.

as for my armpits, there are dull aches but i cant tell if they are swollen or not, but ive convinced myself that they are.

im recently extremely tired, lots of sleep doesn't wake me and i get kept awake by a hunger feeling almost every night(i do eat).

I know the symptoms cant be fully diagnosed by myself without  doctor.

Considering my risk and my 'symptoms' of whatever it might be. does anyone have any advice?

thank you.



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Hi Teak, thanks for posting so quick, thank you. Ive read a lot of your replies to posts here. And i know it might seem like im asking the same old questions, but it guess everyone thinks there case is unique in someway.

Is there no risk from hiv from semen from another man being passed on through a mouth?
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HIV is not transmitted by oral sex.
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