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ARS Symptoms and HIV Test at 75 Day

Hi; On May 07 2009 I want to a stip club and had a lap dance, I had my swett pats and a thin boxer shots and ejakulated under my cloths, the girl was nude rubbing her vegina over my penis ( inside cloths). After 1 hour I had another lap dance for 5 min, this time the girl was waring her pantis, after 10 min a third girl came she started rubbing her vegina on over my penis ( Inside cloths and with my seamen from my first ejakulation) she was having her thong for 5 min and later removed if for 2 min. I Ejakulated for the second time ( Under my cloths). I never inserted the penins in her vegina, nor touched or kissed the girl. But there is a chance that her veginal fulid can mix with my semen theu the cloths as there is no latex barrier

From the next day onwards I stared thinking about HIV and I was under heavey stress and depression. On Day 21st and 22nd I had a feaver (Only at night)  and few Black dots appread on my face, neck, hand ( all over the body 20-30 of them). I also had all the symptoms of ARS, ( feaver, Rash, Head ache, all ).After 50 days I still have the Black Dots on my body. I am sure it was not there before the feaver. I got it cheked with a dermetologist she told me these are moles, and HIV rash will be pink not black and will not stay for 50+ days

I had a rapid Antibody test done at 6 week 5 days, 9 Week 2 days, 9 week 5 days and 10 week 5 days. all -Ve. I am waiting for the 90 day mark to get tested again. Also all my STD test are -Ve

1) My questins are Do ARS rash apperar as flat Black dots, Will they stay for 50+days ? I still have them?

2) Can I relay on the tests at 10.5 week and move on with my life. I am confused and I was reding in the internat that Window period for antibody test is 3-6 months.

My life has become a hell after this insident and I am confused with what to do next? I was under dipression for 6 weeks and ended up losing my job becase of this. Please help me,
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186166 tn?1385259382
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you really scared me! Pls don't do that anymore because a conclusive hiv test result is at 3 months. So if you had unprotected sex 4 months ago, then youre okay , keep testing like me. It will be okay cuz we all need a lesson to wake us up from our stupid mistakes, learn from it and keep having safe sex always. I choose never to, but i wonder how long that will last, but i'll always have condoms on me that's for sure! love someone who cares about life and see thing in a different way.
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thank you and am sorry about being obd. am getting help for obd, thanks to lizzie lou and teak. Both of you are very helpful human being that i trust and have fallen in love with. Thanks for all of your help love bratesha.
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186166 tn?1385259382
YOU'VE BEEN TOLD REPEATEDLY THAT 3 MONTHS IS CONCLUSIVE...

MOVE ON ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
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114 days is more than 6 months oh my god am getting really scared. I thought conclusive test results are 3 nmonths help. lizzie help? im scared i haven't been on the computer for today but just got on and seen 114 days. advice pls is that right or wrong?
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move on
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Hi Juliana;

Do they have rapid testing in bombay. what type of raid testing they have there. how is the NACO testing centers in india
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thank god
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Lizze;

I got a big mistry resolved the ARS rash that we driving me crazy for months, I saw them in a old photo that was taken 5-6 months back ( my wife showed it to me). Apparently I had this moles in my face and neck and hand was there before and I never noticed, This was driving me nuts for months and made be belive that I have HIV and they are ARS rash and made me go to 3 doctors, i am feeling relaxed now. sorry for my exessiive posting and I did know where to trurn to.. God bless you all
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HI LIZZIE;

Please tell me more on the Window Period. Many sites say it is 3 months. CDC Says 3-6 Months. I have also read about people testing positive at 114 days. Body.com says 3 months and 6 months ( 3months for risk with unknown HIV status and 6 months for known HIV risk). What do you say on window period with tetsing currenlty availabe in US now like ( Ora quick oral testing , Rapid tetsing and many testing used in labs like Lab corp or Quest)
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Hi teak

You teach on HIV/AIDS Please tell me more on the Window Period. Many sites say it is 3 months. CDC Says 3-6 Months. I have also read about people testing positive at 114 days. Body.com says 3 months and 6 months ( 3months for risk with unknown HIV status and 6 months for known HIV risk). What do you say on window period with tetsing currenlty availabe in US now like ( Ora quick oral testing , Rapid tetsing and many used in labs like Lab corp or Quest)
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186166 tn?1385259382
they did NOT use a dirty lancet to test you...geeez ! ! !

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HI;
How long HIV can live in used lancets that are in the pen thing?. I did a test at planned parent hood on June1 and now down with feaver and sore throught, Head ache ? I did not see her changing any thing on the Pen thing. Worried
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Hi Teak

How long HIV can live in used lancets that are in the pen thing?. I did a test at planned parent hood on June1 and now down with feaver and sore throught ? I did not see her changing any thing on the Pen thing. Worried
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Please do not get angry. I feel my self the worst person on the planet.  There is more to the story . I just like to know the risk of stupid action that put my entire family's life in line. here is what happend I was having a rough time with my wife last year and started the bad habit of going to strip club went there 5-6 times max in last one year taken lap dance  and ejaculating under my cloths (Thin adias swet pants, Silk boxer no insert to vegina ) remembering inserting fingure in to a stripers vegina once and washed my finger after the dance (10 min) - no cuts or woonds at that time  ( this was almost an year back). The last time i went to the strip club in last year was by Nov 15 2008.

After this went to India got back together with my wife and had unprotected unplannedsex with my wife and she become pregnent. ( I totaly forgot about the risk i was taken before). I came back alone to US and went to the strip club again on March 7 2009 got drunk and did couple of lap dance in the same day ( ejakulating under my cloths), Next day on words i started thinking on HIV and other STD.

I immediatly went and took a raid HIV test it came back -ve.  I had 10 HIV ELISA testes so far  (9 rapid and 1 blood draw at Lab Corp for HIV 1/2/O) in the last 13 weeks the last one was taken at 13.2 weeks after my last enounther ( The one on march 7 2009)  and more than 6 months from the second last - before i had sex with my wife) all -ve, Got screened for all STD all -ve.

Now my wife is back in US and I am not able to face her , is there any chance in the world i have passed any thing to her and my unborn child. She did 2 HIV tests in India as a part of pregnency one was at 6 weeks and another one was at 10-12 week mark both -v and other STD Screeing

I learned a big lesson more than that I put my family at risk now i have only one choice to end my life if anothig happen to her because of me. Please help
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You had no risk, move on
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Please do not get angry. I feel my self the worst person on the planet.  There is more to the story . I just like to know the risk of stupid action that put my entire family's life in line. here is what happend I was having a rough time with my wife last year and started the bad habit of going to strip club went there 5-6 times max in last one year taken lap dance  and ejaculating under my cloths (Thin adias swet pants, Silk boxer no insert to vegina ) remembering inserting fingure in to a stripers vegina once and washed my finger after the dance (10 min) - no cuts or woonds at that time  ( this was almost an year back). The last time i went to the strip club in last year was by Nov 15 2008.

After this went to India got back together with my wife and had unprotected unplannedsex with my wife and she become pregnent. ( I totaly forgot about the risk i was taken before). I came back alone to US and went to the strip club again on March 7 2009 got drunk and did couple of lap dance in the same day ( ejakulating under my cloths), Next day on words i started thinking on HIV and other STD.

I immediatly went and took a raid HIV test it came back -ve.  I had 10 HIV ELISA testes so far  (9 rapid and 1 blood draw at Lab Corp for HIV 1/2/O) in the last 13 weeks the last one was taken at 13.2 weeks after my last enounther ( The one on march 7 2009)  and more than 6 months from the second last - before i had sex with my wife) all -ve, Got screened for all STD all -ve.

Now my wife is back in US and I am not able to face her becase of guilt, is there any chance in the world i have passed any thing to her and my unborn child. She did 2 HIV tests in India as a part of pregnency one was at 6 weeks and another one was at 10-12 week mark both -v and other STD Screeing

I learned a big lesson more than that I put my family at risk now i have only one choice to end my life if anothig happen to her because of me. Please help.
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Hi;

Got my 12, week 2 days Rapid test today at planned parent hood. Seems they use the Uni-gold rapid test (3rd generation, Antibody test), non reactive, Some peace of mind. and does 86 days and 3 months make big difference
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755829 tn?1246919225
HIV cxan only be transfred within the body not outside
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