Advice needed please? HIV anxiety!

[Chelsea934]

Hi there,

I had sexual intercourse with a girl from a massage parlour!

I am a circumsised man, and had protected sex with the girl! The reason why i am worrying is because after ejaculating and pulling out, the condom was no longer on my penis and hanging outside of the vagina. Im assuming that if it got pulled of mid sex then surely the condom would of been pushed inside?

I started to worry about HIV so had as follows:

2 week duo test
4 week duo test
6 week antibody rapid test
10 week antibody rapid test

All of them came back negative!

I still had anxiety and went back to the GUM/STD clinic, where they told me i havent got HIV and didnt need to test, even though i know its a 12 week conxlusive, but she told me, i didnt need to worry and i havent got HIV!

Just need some advice really, as this was almost 6 months ago now and ive had a few symptoms such as mouth sore and suspected swollen glands?

Please help with my anxiety and i thank you in advance for your replies!

Thank you!

[RubyWitch]

If the condom had come off during intercourse, it would have remained inside the woman. That it was hanging outside the vagina means it came off while you were withdrawing...........NO RISK for HIV. You did not need to test. Since this happened 6 months ago and you are still having anxiety about it, for peace of mind, take any blood drawn test now and you will see that you are conclusively NEGATIVE.
Symptoms are never used to diagnose HIV, which you don't have! If your symptoms persist, see your doctor.