Hi everyone, I would like to thank you all in advance for your help. 27 year old female after of potential exposure after things got a little too rough during sex with my boyfriend.
So my bf and I are in a monogamous relationship for AF a few months now. I'll admit we aren't always responsible and have a lot of sex, unprotected. A few nights ago we were having sex and (my apologies for the graphic visual) but he then started to finger me. He went a little too deep and rough and I noticed upon urinating after intercourse that I was bleeding a little. An hour or so later we had sex again and he fingered me once again. I used the restroom once more afterwards, only to find I bled a little more. I told him about it and he felt so bad. We both decided he was too rough and he shouldn't do it anymore. I was not due for the time of the month as I'd just ended a week ago.
The main issue with this is he's never been tested for HIV. While I was tested in 2018 and it came back negative, I'm still afraid since he's never been tested. Also, because prior to meeting him I had sex with someone in 2019 and... We weren't very responsible:( I'm not sure if that partners status either. He was the only person I had sex with before meeting my bf last year in 2019. To be clear I never have any symptoms of anything and I feel fine from a few nights ago with my bf. I'm just really scared and would love some feedback. Thank you all again ❤️