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Am I at risk for hiv

Hello doctor,2 weeks ago I had sex with girl I was drunk and the girl was drunk too,I put condom and intercourse but I cannot ejaculate because of drunk,I fingered her vagina,later I went to toilet and check the condom,it was not broke,even I put water on it to confirm it’s not broke,but after 2 days I have very bad anxiety and thinking negative thoughts,thinking like I did not put condom and have sex,it’s keep coming in my mind and I feel depressed.I was very drunk but I remember I put condom even I check on toilet.is it my mind thinking like this or should I go for check.am I be risk for hiv on this situation.please need some help.Thankyou
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The risks for HIV are unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing IV drug needles.  You had protected sex.  All that has to be covered is the head of your penis .  Your mind putting doubt that you used a condom when you know that you did is concerning. Your anxiety is very high.  We can not reassure you enough (nor are we allowed as this forum has rules about posting over and over regarding anxious thoughts) so you need to consider what kind of help you can get for your anxiety and depression.  What about not having sex with random people for the time being?  That's a trigger for you.  If you get drunk and lose your inhibitions, don't drink.  This is off topic discussion of HIV but HIV is not your real issue, anxiety is.  Please get help for it.  
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As Chima stated last time you posted, you have a problem with alcohol since you already know you will be terrified the next morning yet you still drink. Tell that to the therapist too.
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Obviously you had no risk - your mind is playing tricks on you. Your situation requires a therapist to help you manage your thoughts and imagination, but this forum can't help with that. You should have sought help long ago based on your last posthttps://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/Is-it-hiv-seroconversion-acute-symptoms/show/3049079#post_14449738
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Hello sir
One question for you,since yesterday I have this tingling and itchy sensation on my legs and hand but there is no rash.I itched a lot and became red like swollen like hives.I was thinking can it be hiv rash,but I don’t have any other symptoms like fever,sore throat and swollen lymph nodes.everything is good beside this itching problem.does hiv seroconversion have only 1 symptoms.please need some help.Thankyou sir
You were already fully answered you had ZERO risk.  You've been informed what the risks for HIV are.  You didn't have one.  Therefore, nothing you mention as your 'symptoms' could be HIV related.  
I had sex with girl and I was drunk but I couldn’t fully remember,what I remember is I put condom when I have sex and I check condom when I finish it and it didn’t broke too.but my mind keep thinking did I insert my penis without condom that makes me so paranoia.now I have very itchy and tingling in my skin but no rash.I don’t have any other symptoms,it’s 3 rd week from my sex that I do.I am really paranoia and panic,and it makes more urge to itch.what it could be.
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