Am I at risk for hiv? Should I get tested?

[Wambam4840]

I am a 22 year old female and went out with a guy I was seeing who is Hispanic and 23. We were making out and one thing led to another and we were about to engage in sex. He had no visible pre *** and he was fingering me for some time when he suddenly stuck his bare penis in me for less than a minute. I pushed him off and told him that I didn’t want to have sex so he stopped and continued to finger me. He did not ejaculate inside me, it mostly got on the seats of his car and some on my thigh.When I got home I used the bathroom and noticed I was bleeding slightly. Am I at risk for contracting hiv from this incident?

[diver58]

Unprotected penetration between two partners of unknown health status does carry a risk, whether or not ejaculation is involved.

However, having said that, a single, isolated act of unprotected sex does not put us at a significant risk of HIV due to the fact that status of the partner is unknown and strong possibility is, he / she may not be an infected person.

So your risk is there, but not significant. Suggest you to relax and wait 28 days, counted from the day of the exposure, get yourself tested for HIV Duo 4th generation test, collect your conclusive report and move on with your life normally.

Next time, never ever unprotected penetration outside your mutually committed monogamous relationship. The best friend of a girl is not her boy friend, but her condom