Am I exposed to HIV risks?

[Finnhudson]

Hi all,

Thank you a lot for your efforts in the forum.

I am a gay guy from China. On Apr 11th, I tried boy massage during my travel in Thailand. In the process we did the following things (really sorry for the details here):

1) the boy oil massaged me all over my body

2) the boy licked my ears and nipples, and hugged me for a while

3) the boy fingered me in the anus shallowly

4) the boy gave me a handjob

My question is whether I am exposed to HIV risk. I am especially worried about fingering because I am not sure if he has cuts on his fingers, and on Apr 10 I found some blood on the toilet paper after a bowel movement due to a spicy meal that day. However, after massage his fingers were at least not bleeding.

Thank you for your time and kindness.

[diver58]

None of your exposure puts you at any risk of HIV. Relax and move on with your life normally

[Finnhudson]

Hi diver58,

Thank you a lot for your response which is a huge relief!

Just a quick followup question: can I make sure if fingering is also safe if he has cuts on his fingers? On Apr 10 I found some blood on the toilet paper after a bowel movement due to a spicy meal that day. Even though his fingers were at least not bleeding after the massage, I hope to be alright even in the worst scenarios.

Thanks for your time and efforts.

[diver58]

Even he had minor non-bleeding cut on his finger, your risk does not shift from iota, even by an inch. There has to be wound, profusely bleeding to pose a low risk threat. And in such case, he would be sitting in the emergency room of a clinic, not massaging you at the parlor