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Am I infected? Im really worried please help

Hi everyone this might be long so please bare with me

I’m in thailand now, went to a massage place in there and the girl asked me for a happy ending, she was performing deep throat oral on me while i was fingering her with three fingers

Anyways after she was done i went and washed, 10 minuetes after i noticed redness and burning sensation on one of the fingers i used and it burns when i touch it, it feels like a cut although i cant see a cut.

Does this mean i cut my fingers in the way i was fingering her and opened a way for hiv?
Is this a risk of hiv?

Please educate me cauz im really concerned and scared to death
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Just one more question!

Can ARS symptoms show after 6 days of exposure?
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You're not having ARS because you had NO risk. That's all there is to say.
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You cannot get infected through your finger, regardless of whether you had a cut or a hangnail or anything else. Besides there most likely wasn't anything on your finger in the first place because there's nothing inside a woman's vagina that would cause you to get a cut. You're just being extremely paranoid for some reason.
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What about the oral? Would cuming in her mouth make a difference?
Reread about the 3 and the "long way" because that question was answered before.
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You had no risk and any HIV test would be a waste of time.

HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.

Only adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Tattoo is not an injection.  Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make any of your encounter a risk for HIV.  No one in 40 years of HIV history got HIV from the situation you are concerned about so it is unlikely that it will happen in the next 40 of your lifetime either.
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But my fingers were all deep in her, it wasn’t external rubbing
That’s what is worrying me the most @anxiousnomore my fingers werent rubbing her from the outside they were all inside of her
Is that an hiv situation ?
Reread about the 3 because the list was complete.
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