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Broken condom risk

Hello,
Two weeks ago I had a business trip to Shanghai and one eventing I took a sex worker back to my hotel.
She put a condom on me and started with oral sex. After a while we had sex for 10 or 20 seconds but for some reason it didn't feel right so we went back to oral sex. I finished in her mouth at which point she said the condom broke. After she left I did a water test and found a 2 to 3 mm hole in the condom.
I don't know if it was defective from beginning or when did it break and now I am worried sick that I was exposed to an STD.
I have done tests for gonorhea and chlamydia and waiting for results but I am really scared about HIV.
I did not have sex with my wife since but I have to make a decision if I should tell her.
Can you please help?
Thank you.
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Actually, thank you for the descriptions. So, I'm guessing you used the same condom for oral after intercourse. If this is the case, then I still stand by my answer. If she said there is a hole while giving oral, the hole must have been created at that time too ((maybe with her teeth)). If the hole had been present during intercourse, you can be sure it would have turned into a very obvious rupture after a single thrust.
I still say no risk.
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2-3mm holes don't appear in condoms. They either break very obviously or they don't break at all. The fact the you had to check the condom by putting water in it and not by seeing alone is further evidence that it didn't break. The water that you THINK was leaking from the condom were the droplets around it.
The smallest hole in a condom would tear open into a a very noticeable hole or make it split after a single thrust.
You had no risk.
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Thank you for the reply. I am pretty sure that there was a hole, could it have been a defective condom from beginning? The girl was the one that actually said it first, I guess she felt the taste (apologise for descriptions)
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