i am a 25 year old male, i had unprotected sex with a sex worker, condom ripped i think halfway through the sex. this happened in Southern Africa, more specifically Zimbabwe. i am uncircumcised. after finishing, the sex worker (female) was disappointed and scorned me for not realizing the condom had ripped. she then kept on asking me if i had ejaculated inside of her (of which i had). i don't know if she was asking because she feels guilty and i am young and might have gotten hiv or because she was afraid of hiv or pregnancy.next day i woke up with a neck pain and dark urine, which sank in the toilet water. it didn't mix with the water. after 3 more days i noticed bumps on my penis head, saw a doctor and he said i had gotten candida and he prescribed this cream which i used and it disappeared in 2 days. on day 6 i started having neck pain and shoulder pain with sore shoulder joints, lasted for a week. i still kind of feel it but mildly, today is day 22. i have a swollen lymph node on the left side of my neck, it is so small and you cannot really see if but you can feel it, i noticed it on day 12. on day 12 as well my tongue is kind of white and a little bit hairy. nothing on my gums or roof of my mouth. i had been taking some antibiotics for the whole of the previous week and my oral hygiene at that time i do admit was a little bit off. when i brush it off it clears a bit but comes back tomorrow morning.white stuff accumulate at the back of my tongue. on day 21 my left butt cheek and left calf did hurt for most of the day but the pain went away in the evening and never came back. do these symptoms mean i am hiv positive. i was told to come for a test at 6 weeks, i cant stand the stress from day 1, today is day 22. please help